"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A party: many men, two girl (mine included)

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nvictor

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DJs,

Our department manager is organizing a party. Only
two girls are coming. My target included, well she's
the manager's secretary assistant.

My first problem: I don't dance. I'm learning but slowly.
Second problem: most co-workers are after my target.
The occasion is offered.

What do I deal with the situation?
I told her this morning: "If party there is, I'll show you
a separate place, where we will have more fun..."

She seems to agree. She doesn't like the idea of being
touched by all the department boys. But also care about
what others will think about that.

Help me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ask her out for a drink some other time.
And don't go to the party.
WTF, are you stupid or something?
 
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Go to the party...and act cool. No needy. Talk with all the guys (and both girls)...but don't talk ABOUT her. This is an oportunity to show how you deal among other guys.

It is a company party after all.

Now...if you manage to get her NOT to go to the party and go somewhere with you...even better.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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