"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A party: many men, two girl (mine included)

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nvictor

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DJs,

Our department manager is organizing a party. Only
two girls are coming. My target included, well she's
the manager's secretary assistant.

My first problem: I don't dance. I'm learning but slowly.
Second problem: most co-workers are after my target.
The occasion is offered.

What do I deal with the situation?
I told her this morning: "If party there is, I'll show you
a separate place, where we will have more fun..."

She seems to agree. She doesn't like the idea of being
touched by all the department boys. But also care about
what others will think about that.

Help me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ask her out for a drink some other time.
And don't go to the party.
WTF, are you stupid or something?
 
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Go to the party...and act cool. No needy. Talk with all the guys (and both girls)...but don't talk ABOUT her. This is an oportunity to show how you deal among other guys.

It is a company party after all.

Now...if you manage to get her NOT to go to the party and go somewhere with you...even better.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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