"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have passed this girl in the hallway forever now, and I finally said something to her before I had to run to class. I said, "Nice Notebook". She thanked me for the compliment and I ran off.

Blah...Blah...Blah. Atleast she remembers me. Tommorow I will approach her. Now I've been on this site for over two years now, and I need some advice. What exactly should I say? It's not that I am scared of rejection, I just don't want to be called a stalker. That's what happens when you talk to a lot of girls, they call you a stalker. I just want so win for once. Tommrow's goal: Number. So please help me out. Also, how honest should I be with her? She I tell her specifcally NOT to call me a stalker.

This will be an experiment for the site. If I succeed, then Don Juan methods are true. But if I get called a stalker, then perhaps the truth is not here on the site.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The outcome of this "experience" will have nothing to do with sosuave. It's all about you. You've been here for 2 years but it's only today that you do something? please. You signed up 2 years ago and today, desperatly you have opened up this site again, that's all.

You do not master yourself. You are still trying to find some one else to blame. When will you grow up and be a man? You are blaming sosuave for your failure.

You complimented a girl on her notebook? Jesus dude, next time just stfu.

Once you have grown up, you may come back to this site and post again. Until then, until you start improving yourself and getting sh*t done, please don't come back.

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Lik gives the most effective advice on this website.
 
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Originally posted by Porky
Lik gives the most effective advice on this website.
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Porky, sometimes it's really hard to distinguish between your genuine and sarcastic comments...
 
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That's what happens when you talk to a lot of girls, they call you a stalker.
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If thats the case....then im a very bad man.;)

Nothing wrong with talking to a lot of girls. Thats how you get practice. Oh and another thing....stop thinking that the chick is going to precieve you as a stalker. She WILL NOT...thats aslong as you approach her in the right manner. Girls want guys to talk to them as much as guys want girls to talk to them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Strong325
I just don't want to be called a stalker. That's what happens when you talk to a lot of girls, they call you a stalker.
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Stalkers are guys who don't talk, have you honestly ever heard of a talkative stalker? Talking a lot would be a good thing if you think positive and a bad thing if you think about yourself negatively. I reccomend read the ENTIRE thread "Kill that Desperation" by Pook. He branches out from just talkng about Desperation later on in the thread, and philosophizes (or does he?)
 
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Porky, sometimes it's really hard to distinguish between your genuine and sarcastic comments...
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I chose my words carefully. I didn't say some of the best advice, but some of the most effective advice. I was being serious!
 
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