"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A New Girl

Strong325

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I have passed this girl in the hallway forever now, and I finally said something to her before I had to run to class. I said, "Nice Notebook". She thanked me for the compliment and I ran off.

Blah...Blah...Blah. Atleast she remembers me. Tommorow I will approach her. Now I've been on this site for over two years now, and I need some advice. What exactly should I say? It's not that I am scared of rejection, I just don't want to be called a stalker. That's what happens when you talk to a lot of girls, they call you a stalker. I just want so win for once. Tommrow's goal: Number. So please help me out. Also, how honest should I be with her? She I tell her specifcally NOT to call me a stalker.

This will be an experiment for the site. If I succeed, then Don Juan methods are true. But if I get called a stalker, then perhaps the truth is not here on the site.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LikRetsam

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The outcome of this "experience" will have nothing to do with sosuave. It's all about you. You've been here for 2 years but it's only today that you do something? please. You signed up 2 years ago and today, desperatly you have opened up this site again, that's all.

You do not master yourself. You are still trying to find some one else to blame. When will you grow up and be a man? You are blaming sosuave for your failure.

You complimented a girl on her notebook? Jesus dude, next time just stfu.

Once you have grown up, you may come back to this site and post again. Until then, until you start improving yourself and getting sh*t done, please don't come back.

Lik
 

Porky

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Lik gives the most effective advice on this website.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
Lik gives the most effective advice on this website.
Porky, sometimes it's really hard to distinguish between your genuine and sarcastic comments...
 

InsidiousNstinct

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That's what happens when you talk to a lot of girls, they call you a stalker.
If thats the case....then im a very bad man.;)

Nothing wrong with talking to a lot of girls. Thats how you get practice. Oh and another thing....stop thinking that the chick is going to precieve you as a stalker. She WILL NOT...thats aslong as you approach her in the right manner. Girls want guys to talk to them as much as guys want girls to talk to them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Microphone Fiend

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Originally posted by Strong325
I just don't want to be called a stalker. That's what happens when you talk to a lot of girls, they call you a stalker.
Stalkers are guys who don't talk, have you honestly ever heard of a talkative stalker? Talking a lot would be a good thing if you think positive and a bad thing if you think about yourself negatively. I reccomend read the ENTIRE thread "Kill that Desperation" by Pook. He branches out from just talkng about Desperation later on in the thread, and philosophizes (or does he?)
 

Porky

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Originally posted by fbplayer06
Porky, sometimes it's really hard to distinguish between your genuine and sarcastic comments...
I chose my words carefully. I didn't say some of the best advice, but some of the most effective advice. I was being serious!
 
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