"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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I have passed this girl in the hallway forever now, and I finally said something to her before I had to run to class. I said, "Nice Notebook". She thanked me for the compliment and I ran off.

Blah...Blah...Blah. Atleast she remembers me. Tommorow I will approach her. Now I've been on this site for over two years now, and I need some advice. What exactly should I say? It's not that I am scared of rejection, I just don't want to be called a stalker. That's what happens when you talk to a lot of girls, they call you a stalker. I just want so win for once. Tommrow's goal: Number. So please help me out. Also, how honest should I be with her? She I tell her specifcally NOT to call me a stalker.

This will be an experiment for the site. If I succeed, then Don Juan methods are true. But if I get called a stalker, then perhaps the truth is not here on the site.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The outcome of this "experience" will have nothing to do with sosuave. It's all about you. You've been here for 2 years but it's only today that you do something? please. You signed up 2 years ago and today, desperatly you have opened up this site again, that's all.

You do not master yourself. You are still trying to find some one else to blame. When will you grow up and be a man? You are blaming sosuave for your failure.

You complimented a girl on her notebook? Jesus dude, next time just stfu.

Once you have grown up, you may come back to this site and post again. Until then, until you start improving yourself and getting sh*t done, please don't come back.

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Lik gives the most effective advice on this website.
 
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Originally posted by Porky
Lik gives the most effective advice on this website.
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Porky, sometimes it's really hard to distinguish between your genuine and sarcastic comments...
 
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That's what happens when you talk to a lot of girls, they call you a stalker.
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If thats the case....then im a very bad man.;)

Nothing wrong with talking to a lot of girls. Thats how you get practice. Oh and another thing....stop thinking that the chick is going to precieve you as a stalker. She WILL NOT...thats aslong as you approach her in the right manner. Girls want guys to talk to them as much as guys want girls to talk to them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Strong325
I just don't want to be called a stalker. That's what happens when you talk to a lot of girls, they call you a stalker.
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Stalkers are guys who don't talk, have you honestly ever heard of a talkative stalker? Talking a lot would be a good thing if you think positive and a bad thing if you think about yourself negatively. I reccomend read the ENTIRE thread "Kill that Desperation" by Pook. He branches out from just talkng about Desperation later on in the thread, and philosophizes (or does he?)
 
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Originally posted by fbplayer06
Porky, sometimes it's really hard to distinguish between your genuine and sarcastic comments...
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I chose my words carefully. I didn't say some of the best advice, but some of the most effective advice. I was being serious!
 
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