"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A mentally fvcked up girl that I still wanna have sex with

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Advance physically, not verbally. Verbally she can be full of sh'it but if you're making out with her, fondling her, grinding her with your crotch and she likes it... you know she's serious. Then just lead her to the place and **** her. And use protection man, jees, she must have some pretty nasty diseases....
we were fondling like crazy trust me

final Update - she's been completely NEXTED, shes ignoring me so I am not gonna see her again and my c0ck will remain disease free LOL
 

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She is probably playing with your emotions. She knows she is hot and that you want it. She gets off on getting you hot and horny and then telling you it might not happen.

It is the old carrot and a stick routine and you are the jack-ass constantly moving and chasing after that carrot.

Now look in the mirror and ask yourself how it feels. Then get mad. Then play the game a bit harder with her. Back away and watch her jump.
 

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CraigMack said:
She is probably playing with your emotions. She knows she is hot and that you want it. She gets off on getting you hot and horny and then telling you it might not happen.

It is the old carrot and a stick routine and you are the jack-ass constantly moving and chasing after that carrot.

Now look in the mirror and ask yourself how it feels. Then get mad. Then play the game a bit harder with her. Back away and watch her jump.
LOL... what? this chapter is over. Skip might get a break, there might be a sequel, but this chapter is over. You can't win 'em all.

Don't get me wrong, I have gone on about 10 dates in the past year with girls who rejected me at first, but said yes a month or two later, and were really into me on the dates. All I'm saying is, this chapter is ever so over. Skip will be lucky if he sees her "jump" (lol what on earth does that mean anyway?!) before a month from now, if ever.

Next.
 

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i got rid of her from myspace (and all the comments she left me, that attention *****).......and i added at least 20 new chicks who r leavin me comments now too

jealousy will make her get on her knees and........blow me, ****in *****!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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other than one guy, does anybody else smell a troll here?

comic_relief
 

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does it turn you on sexually to call people trolls?

im thr troll patrol, i point out trolls whenever I see them and they get banned the next day, so dont worry I got it all taken care of
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
does it turn you on sexually to call people trolls?

im thr troll patrol, i point out trolls whenever I see them and they get banned the next day, so dont worry I got it all taken care of
maybe... :p

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does it turn you on sexually to call people trolls?

im thr troll patrol, i point out trolls whenever I see them and they get banned the next day, so dont worry I got it all taken care of
lol

Well troll patrol, since you haven't pointed yourself out yet, you must be legit :)
 

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i didnt read any replies but ive been in the same exact situation as you. this psyscho b!tch that i acutally ended up with in a 2 yr ltr was the same exact way. she came out saying straight up thats shes been with 40 dudes. always saying she wants to fvck me always trying to suck my d1ck when i drive etc. i would never let her though. we would sleep together etc then one night i was wasted and finally fvcked her. but the point is i never made any advances on her ever she was use to that from other guys but i was different. she even said i drove her crazy cause i wouldnt let her do anything and make no advances. so dont go saying things to her like i wanna fvck you or anything cause guarantee you wont if you do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i didnt read any replies but ive been in the same exact situation as you. this psyscho b!tch that i acutally ended up with in a 2 yr ltr was the same exact way. she came out saying straight up thats shes been with 40 dudes. always saying she wants to fvck me always trying to suck my d1ck when i drive etc. i would never let her though. we would sleep together etc then one night i was wasted and finally fvcked her. but the point is i never made any advances on her ever she was use to that from other guys but i was different. she even said i drove her crazy cause i wouldnt let her do anything and make no advances. so dont go saying things to her like i wanna fvck you or anything cause guarantee you wont if you do.

yup, well i made flirty myspace comments to her, and she lost ALL interest.


how often did u fvck the girl that u were in a 2 year LTR with?
 

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i didnt read any replies but ive been in the same exact situation as you. this psyscho b!tch that i acutally ended up with in a 2 yr ltr was the same exact way. she came out saying straight up thats shes been with 40 dudes. always saying she wants to fvck me always trying to suck my d1ck when i drive etc. i would never let her though. we would sleep together etc then one night i was wasted and finally fvcked her. but the point is i never made any advances on her ever she was use to that from other guys but i was different. she even said i drove her crazy cause i wouldnt let her do anything and make no advances. so dont go saying things to her like i wanna fvck you or anything cause guarantee you wont if you do.
Good post.
 

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before i was in a ltr with her probably fvcked her once or twice a week after we fvcked the first time. haha but she got me back for not fvcking her right away by fvcking one of my friends. but that kind of sh!t comes with the territory of a psycho b1tch. honestly slvts are too much to handle while your with them and while you are without them
 

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bottom line - this thing with the girl didnt happen and wont, no more need to discuss it guys
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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blue pheonix.......should i even be lucky that i DIDNT **** her? cyz that article u just posted is scary!!
 

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You've already established the pattern--show no interest, she's all over you...make flirtatious gesture she turns cold. You already know what to do.

Personally, I'd use a line like "There's no way you're going to get me into bed that easy" or some variation thereof.
 

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I have a had a lot of experience with "nutters". I can honestly say that every instance except for one it was MY FAULT because I ignored my internal "nutter detector".

Heck, the problem is that we all think with our rods. The evidence in most cases is right in front of our eyes. The more you are AFC, the tougher it will be for you to NEXT these cretins. Once they get their claws into you, it gets tougher and tougher. Before you know it, you are riding an emotional roller coaster straight for hell.

Sites like myspace.com and match.com are breeding pools for these type of women. It seems like Lou you had a Class One on your hands. If you are telling the truth, and you really did NEXT her, good for you. That is a very hard thing to do.

So, how do you know you are dealing with a nutter?

Well, here is an example.

Lets say you meet a woman off of myspace or match.com. Lets say that within the first few times you are talking to her she is already talking about *&^%$&(" your brains out.

*red flag*

No chick with her brain screwed on right will be talking about that in the first few conversations. If that's what you want, well, you have a chance for some easy sex. However, how many guys on here really want to screw a chick that has slept with a million guys?

Always ask chicks about ther past!!! Usually they will lie but the thing about nutters is that they will slip up. You really need to listen to what they say, and construct. A chick who has a shoddy past should be NEXTED.

Here are a few things that are automatic NEXTs:

Chicks who have been...

-Raped
-Molested
-Cuts self
-Drug use
-Overly Drunk... More than the avg 2 per weekend
-Works at Hooters, Strip Club, or any other job that Demands Male Attention
-*BI's* Those chicks are usually f'ed up in their brains

Those are just a few *red flags*

You will also notice that nutters tend to gravitate towards extremes.

Religious "nutters" will fall into this category.

An example of this would be a chick who one moment says she is "saving herself for marriage" and then is screwing a married guy. I one met a girl off a Catholic site who acted all pious and after talking for a bit, she got horny and engaged in phone sex. This same woman said she loved me before I even met me, and flip-flopped several times before dissapearing all together.

I guess I could write a thesis on nutters. I guess the only bit of advice I can give you all is that any chick who is willing to screw you right away has got major issues. If that is your thing, buy a phone card, get some extra thick condoms and hope to God she doesn't find out where you live.

Later
 
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