You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
we were fondling like crazy trust meGubby said:Advance physically, not verbally. Verbally she can be full of sh'it but if you're making out with her, fondling her, grinding her with your crotch and she likes it... you know she's serious. Then just lead her to the place and **** her. And use protection man, jees, she must have some pretty nasty diseases....
LOL... what? this chapter is over. Skip might get a break, there might be a sequel, but this chapter is over. You can't win 'em all.CraigMack said:She is probably playing with your emotions. She knows she is hot and that you want it. She gets off on getting you hot and horny and then telling you it might not happen.
It is the old carrot and a stick routine and you are the jack-ass constantly moving and chasing after that carrot.
Now look in the mirror and ask yourself how it feels. Then get mad. Then play the game a bit harder with her. Back away and watch her jump.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
maybe...skip2mylou781 said:does it turn you on sexually to call people trolls?
im thr troll patrol, i point out trolls whenever I see them and they get banned the next day, so dont worry I got it all taken care of
lolskip2mylou781 said:does it turn you on sexually to call people trolls?
im thr troll patrol, i point out trolls whenever I see them and they get banned the next day, so dont worry I got it all taken care of
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
jigga23 said:i didnt read any replies but ive been in the same exact situation as you. this psyscho b!tch that i acutally ended up with in a 2 yr ltr was the same exact way. she came out saying straight up thats shes been with 40 dudes. always saying she wants to fvck me always trying to suck my d1ck when i drive etc. i would never let her though. we would sleep together etc then one night i was wasted and finally fvcked her. but the point is i never made any advances on her ever she was use to that from other guys but i was different. she even said i drove her crazy cause i wouldnt let her do anything and make no advances. so dont go saying things to her like i wanna fvck you or anything cause guarantee you wont if you do.
Good post.jigga23 said:i didnt read any replies but ive been in the same exact situation as you. this psyscho b!tch that i acutally ended up with in a 2 yr ltr was the same exact way. she came out saying straight up thats shes been with 40 dudes. always saying she wants to fvck me always trying to suck my d1ck when i drive etc. i would never let her though. we would sleep together etc then one night i was wasted and finally fvcked her. but the point is i never made any advances on her ever she was use to that from other guys but i was different. she even said i drove her crazy cause i wouldnt let her do anything and make no advances. so dont go saying things to her like i wanna fvck you or anything cause guarantee you wont if you do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.