I have a had a lot of experience with "nutters". I can honestly say that every instance except for one it was MY FAULT because I ignored my internal "nutter detector".
Heck, the problem is that we all think with our rods. The evidence in most cases is right in front of our eyes. The more you are AFC, the tougher it will be for you to NEXT these cretins. Once they get their claws into you, it gets tougher and tougher. Before you know it, you are riding an emotional roller coaster straight for hell.
Sites like myspace.com and match.com are breeding pools for these type of women. It seems like Lou you had a Class One on your hands. If you are telling the truth, and you really did NEXT her, good for you. That is a very hard thing to do.
So, how do you know you are dealing with a nutter?
Well, here is an example.
Lets say you meet a woman off of myspace or match.com. Lets say that within the first few times you are talking to her she is already talking about *&^%$&(" your brains out.
*red flag*
No chick with her brain screwed on right will be talking about that in the first few conversations. If that's what you want, well, you have a chance for some easy sex. However, how many guys on here really want to screw a chick that has slept with a million guys?
Always ask chicks about ther past!!! Usually they will lie but the thing about nutters is that they will slip up. You really need to listen to what they say, and construct. A chick who has a shoddy past should be NEXTED.
Here are a few things that are automatic NEXTs:
Chicks who have been...
-Raped
-Molested
-Cuts self
-Drug use
-Overly Drunk... More than the avg 2 per weekend
-Works at Hooters, Strip Club, or any other job that Demands Male Attention
-*BI's* Those chicks are usually f'ed up in their brains
Those are just a few *red flags*
You will also notice that nutters tend to gravitate towards extremes.
Religious "nutters" will fall into this category.
An example of this would be a chick who one moment says she is "saving herself for marriage" and then is screwing a married guy. I one met a girl off a Catholic site who acted all pious and after talking for a bit, she got horny and engaged in phone sex. This same woman said she loved me before I even met me, and flip-flopped several times before dissapearing all together.
I guess I could write a thesis on nutters. I guess the only bit of advice I can give you all is that any chick who is willing to screw you right away has got major issues. If that is your thing, buy a phone card, get some extra thick condoms and hope to God she doesn't find out where you live.
Later