She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
we were fondling like crazy trust meGubby said:Advance physically, not verbally. Verbally she can be full of sh'it but if you're making out with her, fondling her, grinding her with your crotch and she likes it... you know she's serious. Then just lead her to the place and **** her. And use protection man, jees, she must have some pretty nasty diseases....
LOL... what? this chapter is over. Skip might get a break, there might be a sequel, but this chapter is over. You can't win 'em all.CraigMack said:She is probably playing with your emotions. She knows she is hot and that you want it. She gets off on getting you hot and horny and then telling you it might not happen.
It is the old carrot and a stick routine and you are the jack-ass constantly moving and chasing after that carrot.
Now look in the mirror and ask yourself how it feels. Then get mad. Then play the game a bit harder with her. Back away and watch her jump.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
maybe...skip2mylou781 said:does it turn you on sexually to call people trolls?
im thr troll patrol, i point out trolls whenever I see them and they get banned the next day, so dont worry I got it all taken care of
lolskip2mylou781 said:does it turn you on sexually to call people trolls?
im thr troll patrol, i point out trolls whenever I see them and they get banned the next day, so dont worry I got it all taken care of
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jigga23 said:i didnt read any replies but ive been in the same exact situation as you. this psyscho b!tch that i acutally ended up with in a 2 yr ltr was the same exact way. she came out saying straight up thats shes been with 40 dudes. always saying she wants to fvck me always trying to suck my d1ck when i drive etc. i would never let her though. we would sleep together etc then one night i was wasted and finally fvcked her. but the point is i never made any advances on her ever she was use to that from other guys but i was different. she even said i drove her crazy cause i wouldnt let her do anything and make no advances. so dont go saying things to her like i wanna fvck you or anything cause guarantee you wont if you do.
Good post.jigga23 said:i didnt read any replies but ive been in the same exact situation as you. this psyscho b!tch that i acutally ended up with in a 2 yr ltr was the same exact way. she came out saying straight up thats shes been with 40 dudes. always saying she wants to fvck me always trying to suck my d1ck when i drive etc. i would never let her though. we would sleep together etc then one night i was wasted and finally fvcked her. but the point is i never made any advances on her ever she was use to that from other guys but i was different. she even said i drove her crazy cause i wouldnt let her do anything and make no advances. so dont go saying things to her like i wanna fvck you or anything cause guarantee you wont if you do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.