"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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051AV

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Ya I know she's off limits she has younger children, for a woman that has had two children she is still a fvcking looker. She's flirts with me you know she's not totally happy in her marriage, I keep it friends only, try make her laugh. Talking to her today she's wearing nice fitting jeans, her ass was...….. hard on material, trust me its not like she is trying to squeeze into these jeans. She's an attractive woman she's mid 30s or so she hasn't lost her attractiveness she's been working out its showing, he other half not so much expanding waist line, letting himself slide.

Now why can't available single women be like this? is that too hard to ask? there is very little boner material single woman roaming around. A guy has to keep his thoughts to himself seeing her today, yank her jeans and panties down to have a sniff and a lick. She's even got good personality to match her looks she's the "perfect" woman. Half the single women out there are fat and over weight and think their sh*t doesn't stink, the decent looking ones have a real attitude to them ya there's a reason why you're single high maintenance b*tch.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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Perfect in every way except she will be doing the same exact thing to other guys while with you
 

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Chances are she knows she is married and have kids and is off limits and that is why she allows herself to flirt around. Chances are her relationship with her husband is a grind now, like it always is, because husband has to provide, and she needs to get attention from somewhere, somehow. Show that btch some manners, make a move on her, escalate, see how she sings then - I can say with 99% certainty she'll say something along the lines, I'm married, I thought you were my friend.
 

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No doubt that a married woman can have a good personality to go with her looks.

She knows she’s married so she doesn’t have her guard up, and also having kids can make a woman more chill/personable sometimes because it takes patience/empathy and a sense of humor to deal with kids.

Find a divorcee to jump your bone(s).
 

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This is normal.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chances are she knows she is married and have kids and is off limits and that is why she allows herself to flirt around. Chances are her relationship with her husband is a grind now, like it always is, because husband has to provide, and she needs to get attention from somewhere, somehow. Show that btch some manners, make a move on her, escalate, see how she sings then - I can say with 99% certainty she'll say something along the lines, I'm married, I thought you were my friend.
I would try make a move on her just to see what she would do...….. the catch is I know her husband fairly well, his mom, his brothers, ya it wouldn't end well if something did happen. She has complained to me about her husband letting himself slide which he has, spends too much time with the guys. I bet she's still interested in having sex but doesn't get any her husband is too interested in doing other things. The creepy thing is her husband looks like a younger version of her dad, why do women do that?

Anyhow there are little things that make her attractive, when I first met her she was either shy or a snob she's much more friendly now, make her laugh, she does get mad at me don't know why....... what ever.
 

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Many married women flirt just to see if they've still got it. Odds are she will never go beyond that, nor would you really want her to. Lots of crazy gun wielding hubbies out there and no piece of ass is worth getting shot over.
 
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She is flirting with you: it speaks against her character, so stop pedestalizing her. And yes lots of single women are fat pigs, that's why they're single.

You need to learn to deal with the attitude of hot women and rise to their challenge. Not much choice other than failure or fapping.
 

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Use her for banter and talk practice. That's probably your best best in this scenario. You wouldn't hold an MMA match with a speed bag, would you? You can't exactly bang this one because of all the social strings.
 

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There is no worries about me getting shot I know her husband he's not going to come after me with a gun, I would end up with a bad reputation in our community thou. No I'm not putting her on a pedestal I've never done that with any women and never will.

Any guys she's around regulary are friends of her husband or her married friends husbands, any time I talk to her she has a big smile it cheers her up. As I've said before I've come up close behind her pushing the personal space boundary she shakes a little gets her heart beating a little she needs that once in a while, give her some friendly convo and walk on. Guys get so complacent when they become married which her husband is.

The women that think their sh*t don't stink are no match for me they think they are intimidating but I give them a stern stare back you can see them dropping a deuce in their panties. I'm not really into women that have attitude they think they are high and mighty, no thanks, there is a reason why they are single.

Married women being friendly is common with me, I've got one that comes up right beside me and pokes me in the ribs or punches me in the arm.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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