"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A lot of people breaking up... wierd.

Hellboy

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There must be at least 5 threads with guys on the verge of breaking up. Anyone else having problems?

It's funny, cos now it's summer all the hotties are out in less clothes, and the LTR guys are getting a roving eyeful.

That's not so much of a problem here in Scotland :) My cycle usually involves nurturing a relationship through the summer. For some reason I always end up breaking up with girls during the winter. I wonder if these things are seasonal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJDamage

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Season affects the mood. In the winter time there is less sun light so people get more depressed and it takes it's toll somewhat on the relationship.

In the summer time there is more chances of hooking up because people go out more, so if a chick is with someone who does not make her happy, she will more likely dump him when she find someone.
 

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At where I work both me and a friend are divorcing our wives, my current roomate is a friend who broke up with his girl and I know about 3-4 other guys that work with me who broke up as well, its pretty weird how it all happened at once (within a month)
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I was on the verge of breaking up with my girl a few times.
Little wonder for someone with such a mean-spirited signature.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I was on the verge of breaking up with my girl a few times.
Was this before or after she agreed to the threesome?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDanny

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well my LTR ended less then a month ago too.

Just thought i'd join the club
 

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EXACTLY


I just broke up tonight..7 months gone to waste.


Reason?

Some guy was hitting on her badly, she said she denied giving him her phone number, but he insisted on giving his. So she did took it..

Let me tell you guys from that millisecond her voice reached my ears, It was all over.


Oh f-cking well.

Let's get on with the pvssies.
 

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maybe you overracted.....girls take guys numbers not to be rude. she could have been taken it to throw that shyt out later.

Its not like she gave her number out.

I can see why ur pissed though
 

Rogerman

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I can see that mate, but I can't see myself in this relationship with her getting numbers.

It's not cool.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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