"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A lot of people breaking up... wierd.

Hellboy

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There must be at least 5 threads with guys on the verge of breaking up. Anyone else having problems?

It's funny, cos now it's summer all the hotties are out in less clothes, and the LTR guys are getting a roving eyeful.

That's not so much of a problem here in Scotland :) My cycle usually involves nurturing a relationship through the summer. For some reason I always end up breaking up with girls during the winter. I wonder if these things are seasonal.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJDamage

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Season affects the mood. In the winter time there is less sun light so people get more depressed and it takes it's toll somewhat on the relationship.

In the summer time there is more chances of hooking up because people go out more, so if a chick is with someone who does not make her happy, she will more likely dump him when she find someone.
 

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At where I work both me and a friend are divorcing our wives, my current roomate is a friend who broke up with his girl and I know about 3-4 other guys that work with me who broke up as well, its pretty weird how it all happened at once (within a month)
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I was on the verge of breaking up with my girl a few times.
Little wonder for someone with such a mean-spirited signature.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I was on the verge of breaking up with my girl a few times.
Was this before or after she agreed to the threesome?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJDanny

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well my LTR ended less then a month ago too.

Just thought i'd join the club
 

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EXACTLY


I just broke up tonight..7 months gone to waste.


Reason?

Some guy was hitting on her badly, she said she denied giving him her phone number, but he insisted on giving his. So she did took it..

Let me tell you guys from that millisecond her voice reached my ears, It was all over.


Oh f-cking well.

Let's get on with the pvssies.
 

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maybe you overracted.....girls take guys numbers not to be rude. she could have been taken it to throw that shyt out later.

Its not like she gave her number out.

I can see why ur pissed though
 

Rogerman

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I can see that mate, but I can't see myself in this relationship with her getting numbers.

It's not cool.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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