"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A lot of people breaking up... wierd.

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There must be at least 5 threads with guys on the verge of breaking up. Anyone else having problems?

It's funny, cos now it's summer all the hotties are out in less clothes, and the LTR guys are getting a roving eyeful.

That's not so much of a problem here in Scotland :) My cycle usually involves nurturing a relationship through the summer. For some reason I always end up breaking up with girls during the winter. I wonder if these things are seasonal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Season affects the mood. In the winter time there is less sun light so people get more depressed and it takes it's toll somewhat on the relationship.

In the summer time there is more chances of hooking up because people go out more, so if a chick is with someone who does not make her happy, she will more likely dump him when she find someone.
 
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At where I work both me and a friend are divorcing our wives, my current roomate is a friend who broke up with his girl and I know about 3-4 other guys that work with me who broke up as well, its pretty weird how it all happened at once (within a month)
 
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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I was on the verge of breaking up with my girl a few times.
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Little wonder for someone with such a mean-spirited signature.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I was on the verge of breaking up with my girl a few times.
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Was this before or after she agreed to the threesome?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well my LTR ended less then a month ago too.

Just thought i'd join the club
 
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EXACTLY


I just broke up tonight..7 months gone to waste.


Reason?

Some guy was hitting on her badly, she said she denied giving him her phone number, but he insisted on giving his. So she did took it..

Let me tell you guys from that millisecond her voice reached my ears, It was all over.


Oh f-cking well.

Let's get on with the pvssies.
 
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maybe you overracted.....girls take guys numbers not to be rude. she could have been taken it to throw that shyt out later.

Its not like she gave her number out.

I can see why ur pissed though
 
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I can see that mate, but I can't see myself in this relationship with her getting numbers.

It's not cool.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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