"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A lot of people breaking up... wierd.

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There must be at least 5 threads with guys on the verge of breaking up. Anyone else having problems?

It's funny, cos now it's summer all the hotties are out in less clothes, and the LTR guys are getting a roving eyeful.

That's not so much of a problem here in Scotland :) My cycle usually involves nurturing a relationship through the summer. For some reason I always end up breaking up with girls during the winter. I wonder if these things are seasonal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Season affects the mood. In the winter time there is less sun light so people get more depressed and it takes it's toll somewhat on the relationship.

In the summer time there is more chances of hooking up because people go out more, so if a chick is with someone who does not make her happy, she will more likely dump him when she find someone.
 
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At where I work both me and a friend are divorcing our wives, my current roomate is a friend who broke up with his girl and I know about 3-4 other guys that work with me who broke up as well, its pretty weird how it all happened at once (within a month)
 
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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I was on the verge of breaking up with my girl a few times.
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Little wonder for someone with such a mean-spirited signature.
 
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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I was on the verge of breaking up with my girl a few times.
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Was this before or after she agreed to the threesome?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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well my LTR ended less then a month ago too.

Just thought i'd join the club
 
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EXACTLY


I just broke up tonight..7 months gone to waste.


Reason?

Some guy was hitting on her badly, she said she denied giving him her phone number, but he insisted on giving his. So she did took it..

Let me tell you guys from that millisecond her voice reached my ears, It was all over.


Oh f-cking well.

Let's get on with the pvssies.
 
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maybe you overracted.....girls take guys numbers not to be rude. she could have been taken it to throw that shyt out later.

Its not like she gave her number out.

I can see why ur pissed though
 
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I can see that mate, but I can't see myself in this relationship with her getting numbers.

It's not cool.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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