That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
money isn't attractive unless she's trying to spend your money, a girl that isn't looking to spend your money isn't going to care about it unless you're literally rich enough to fly her to paris
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Don’t blame biology but women will be attracted to bigger and stronger dudes? How does that work?Dude...if you can't get laid and you're pissed off, don't blame biology LOL whether you like it or not, women will like the alpha male type of guy anytime more than the beat type of guy, they will be attracted to bigger, stronger, smarter dudes. If you don't like that...nature will take care of you
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"Basement nerd" is funny. I haven't heard that one.
I have a friend, my roommate actually, talked about him here before. He is 27, just your average Joe who has banged a couple of older ladies (he calls them hotshots LOL). He blames his mediocre life until now on his parents, on the world, on the devil LOL
okay so both World wars never ****** happened?! The slavery thing is true but Europeans were the first ones to essentially expand slavery to whole another level and also make it based off race, and started the whole your kids are still slaves things. lmao the last sentence is just pure Return of Kings bs. lmao way to make my morning.
Bro.... Africans who were black were selling Africans who were black.. To europeans.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Haha yeh the truth hurts. You are right Fruitbat. I was thinking something similar today. Many of my issues with women are self imposed. I like dating attractive women who are often superficial. I could be settled down with a 5/10 that treats me like a king and will help me grow. But I rather chase the 7.5/10 with the nice ass and pretty face. When you pick up girls from bars like I often do, you tend to be selecting from the more dysfunctional girls.
I like your post dude, but gotta check you on the MONEY issue.
How will she know you have money?
This so much. A girl does not give af if some average dude has a lot of money in his bank account. The type of money girls want is either a high status dude that makes a lot of money or some dude equivalent to some Arabian prince that doesn't have to work yet has a **** load of money to flaunt and spend. These loser bums girls get wet over are the closest thing to the Arabian prince they can get because these guys live off of Credit/drug money/are fortunate enough to not have a major expense like rent, have ***** loads of free time because they aren't working your typical 5 day 8-5 job, don't have to give a **** because they aren't forced to have standards by a job, and etc.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Didn't you say that having money gets you the initial interest, but then you need game to not fvck it up after that? I get the impression that you have both, and I am very happy for you, man. The rest of us who do not have money, like myself, can still do very well with good game and any other way to attract initial interest. Being in a small town instead of a big city helps in that regard, I think. Money does not matter as much where I live.
You could argue that good "game" is a form of status because its evidence of past success. Past success is evidence of VALUE.
The Chad's I know don't need game.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
