"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

A list of blatant lies that need to stop being said on this forum

Thread starter Trainwreck
Start date Jan 20, 2018

Urbanyst

Banned

Jan 23, 2018

Trainwreck said:
The Chad's I know don't need game.

Attractive people with attractive personalities don't need "game" either.

Looks, MONEY and status gets you in the door. An attractive personality keeps you there.

If you have a sh*t personality, then you need "game" to make up for it lol.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.