"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A letter for my wife

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My wife is still isolated in her bedroom

I wrote a letter and intend to put inside her door

Please take a look and analyze line by line

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I still love and I want take care of you but

It was very sad what you did against me in 1995

I cannot accept what you´ve done

At that time if I was sure about that, I would have commited suicide

But today, I have no rights to charge you about that

Yet, the pain still exist. Tha pain of knowing that you spoilted
something very pure

I feel regreted now, but I think it´s too late

Maybe you can be great friends, helping each other

Maybe it's the only way out for both us

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Please analyse this letter
Notice that I am not sure that she cheated on me, I also
I never told her that I cheated on revenge

In this letter I want she to know that I´ve cheated on revange
without telling her in fact

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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drmeathead

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dude if she cheated...walk. if you cheated...deny. if you cant deny...walk. it is that simple.
 

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drmeathead said:
dude if she cheated...walk. if you cheated...deny. if you cant deny...walk. it is that simple.

The problem is not to deny for her. The problem is to deny to myself
I realize that all this stuff is inside of me boiling and getting
pressured. Weeks ago I told her: Do the kind of sex that I want or I will be jerk again as in I was in 2005
She became in silent... may wondering how the h*e*l*l I was a jerk

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joekerr31

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sounds to me like you are addicted to midget porn.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tyron

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why are you getting worried over this? why are you still in this relationship? I can't remember all your threads but my advice would still probably be: walk away. Good luck!

edit: seems like you're very bitter. I can't see how you see something worth your time in this relationship. On the side note, im not sure she'll get the message that you cheated on her.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Tyron said:
why are you getting worried over this? why are you still in this relationship?...
THIS is a relationship??? :confused: Sounds like the "relationship" packed its bags and left long ago...
 

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the biggest problem with ur letter is ur horrible grammar and spelling.
 
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