Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A letter for my wife

Mustache

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My wife is still isolated in her bedroom

I wrote a letter and intend to put inside her door

Please take a look and analyze line by line

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I still love and I want take care of you but

It was very sad what you did against me in 1995

I cannot accept what you´ve done

At that time if I was sure about that, I would have commited suicide

But today, I have no rights to charge you about that

Yet, the pain still exist. Tha pain of knowing that you spoilted
something very pure

I feel regreted now, but I think it´s too late

Maybe you can be great friends, helping each other

Maybe it's the only way out for both us

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Please analyse this letter
Notice that I am not sure that she cheated on me, I also
I never told her that I cheated on revenge

In this letter I want she to know that I´ve cheated on revange
without telling her in fact

Mustache
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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drmeathead

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dude if she cheated...walk. if you cheated...deny. if you cant deny...walk. it is that simple.
 

Mustache

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drmeathead said:
dude if she cheated...walk. if you cheated...deny. if you cant deny...walk. it is that simple.

The problem is not to deny for her. The problem is to deny to myself
I realize that all this stuff is inside of me boiling and getting
pressured. Weeks ago I told her: Do the kind of sex that I want or I will be jerk again as in I was in 2005
She became in silent... may wondering how the h*e*l*l I was a jerk

Mustache
 

joekerr31

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sounds to me like you are addicted to midget porn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tyron

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why are you getting worried over this? why are you still in this relationship? I can't remember all your threads but my advice would still probably be: walk away. Good luck!

edit: seems like you're very bitter. I can't see how you see something worth your time in this relationship. On the side note, im not sure she'll get the message that you cheated on her.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Tyron said:
why are you getting worried over this? why are you still in this relationship?...
THIS is a relationship??? :confused: Sounds like the "relationship" packed its bags and left long ago...
 

yosho

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the biggest problem with ur letter is ur horrible grammar and spelling.
 
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