"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A letter for my wife

Mustache

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My wife is still isolated in her bedroom

I wrote a letter and intend to put inside her door

Please take a look and analyze line by line

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I still love and I want take care of you but

It was very sad what you did against me in 1995

I cannot accept what you´ve done

At that time if I was sure about that, I would have commited suicide

But today, I have no rights to charge you about that

Yet, the pain still exist. Tha pain of knowing that you spoilted
something very pure

I feel regreted now, but I think it´s too late

Maybe you can be great friends, helping each other

Maybe it's the only way out for both us

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Please analyse this letter
Notice that I am not sure that she cheated on me, I also
I never told her that I cheated on revenge

In this letter I want she to know that I´ve cheated on revange
without telling her in fact

Mustache
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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drmeathead

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dude if she cheated...walk. if you cheated...deny. if you cant deny...walk. it is that simple.
 

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drmeathead said:
dude if she cheated...walk. if you cheated...deny. if you cant deny...walk. it is that simple.

The problem is not to deny for her. The problem is to deny to myself
I realize that all this stuff is inside of me boiling and getting
pressured. Weeks ago I told her: Do the kind of sex that I want or I will be jerk again as in I was in 2005
She became in silent... may wondering how the h*e*l*l I was a jerk

Mustache
 

joekerr31

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sounds to me like you are addicted to midget porn.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tyron

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why are you getting worried over this? why are you still in this relationship? I can't remember all your threads but my advice would still probably be: walk away. Good luck!

edit: seems like you're very bitter. I can't see how you see something worth your time in this relationship. On the side note, im not sure she'll get the message that you cheated on her.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Tyron said:
why are you getting worried over this? why are you still in this relationship?...
THIS is a relationship??? :confused: Sounds like the "relationship" packed its bags and left long ago...
 

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the biggest problem with ur letter is ur horrible grammar and spelling.
 
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