"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A letter for my wife

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Mustache

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My wife is still isolated in her bedroom

I wrote a letter and intend to put inside her door

Please take a look and analyze line by line

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I still love and I want take care of you but

It was very sad what you did against me in 1995

I cannot accept what you´ve done

At that time if I was sure about that, I would have commited suicide

But today, I have no rights to charge you about that

Yet, the pain still exist. Tha pain of knowing that you spoilted
something very pure

I feel regreted now, but I think it´s too late

Maybe you can be great friends, helping each other

Maybe it's the only way out for both us

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Please analyse this letter
Notice that I am not sure that she cheated on me, I also
I never told her that I cheated on revenge

In this letter I want she to know that I´ve cheated on revange
without telling her in fact

Mustache
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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drmeathead

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dude if she cheated...walk. if you cheated...deny. if you cant deny...walk. it is that simple.
 
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Mustache

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drmeathead said:
dude if she cheated...walk. if you cheated...deny. if you cant deny...walk. it is that simple.
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The problem is not to deny for her. The problem is to deny to myself
I realize that all this stuff is inside of me boiling and getting
pressured. Weeks ago I told her: Do the kind of sex that I want or I will be jerk again as in I was in 2005
She became in silent... may wondering how the h*e*l*l I was a jerk

Mustache
 
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sounds to me like you are addicted to midget porn.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tyron

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why are you getting worried over this? why are you still in this relationship? I can't remember all your threads but my advice would still probably be: walk away. Good luck!

edit: seems like you're very bitter. I can't see how you see something worth your time in this relationship. On the side note, im not sure she'll get the message that you cheated on her.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Tyron said:
why are you getting worried over this? why are you still in this relationship?...
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THIS is a relationship??? :confused: Sounds like the "relationship" packed its bags and left long ago...
 
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the biggest problem with ur letter is ur horrible grammar and spelling.
 
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