A Guy Giving You Sh1T

[instantnoodles]

Sosuave,

How do you respond to a guy playing games (stupid text games precisely), and some disrespect?

This was someone I used to care about and respect. Now everything has gotten to a point where I'm fed up and need to put him back in his place and stand my ground.

Do I freeze him out? I haven't fed his hamster in ages. It's been around 4 days I stopped texting him. I want to "out-game" his game, so to speak. I already got a nice wall up.

Thanks Everyone, Help a Ndle

 

[foreverAFC]

i dont date men so i wouldnt know

 

[TheCWord]

Can you elaborate on what text games he's playing and how he is overall disrespecting you?

 

[instantnoodles]

It doesn't matter if you date men, just take it in a general aspect. Has nothing to do with gender specifics

I really want to cut these games in two.

 

[LorenzoVonM]

You want to play games to get a drama fix. Recognize that first. Ignore him forever. Anything else you are giving attention, which he wants.

 

[TheCWord]

It doesn't matter if you date men, just take it in a general aspect. Has nothing to do with gender specifics

I really want to cut these games in two.

I'm sure there are plenty of guys here willing to help you, but you're going to need to give us some specifics.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Sosuave,

How do you respond to a guy playing games (stupid text games precisely), and some disrespect?

This was someone I used to care about and respect. Now everything has gotten to a point where I'm fed up and need to put him back in his place and stand my ground.

Do I freeze him out? I haven't fed his hamster in ages. It's been around 4 days I stopped texting him. I want to "out-game" his game, so to speak. I already got a nice wall up.

Thanks Everyone, Help a Ndle

This is a forum for straight men, so I doubt you'd get much advice regarding your problem. On second thought, you may want to PM Gaylan.

 

[Vice]

Ignore it; no response can be the most frustrating thing to someone who is trying to attack you.

 

[instantnoodles]

Ignore it; no response can be the most frustrating thing to someone who is trying to attack you.

You want to play games to get a drama fix. Recognize that first. Ignore him forever. Anything else you are giving attention, which he wants.

Thanks Vice and Lorenzo. You're right. I'll just stop the texts like I been doing. It's also a less problematic way. I must add that the only time I will respond is if there is something very important to be said as well as if he initiates

 

[Atom Smasher]

Secondarily,

It doesn't matter if you date men, just take it in a general aspect. Has nothing to do with gender specifics

I really want to cut these games in two.

Everything under the sun is gender-specific.

A common misconception among the handful of women here is that what works with women also works with men. In reality, techniques that men must use in order to effectively deal with women almost always backfire when women use them in their dealings with men.

I will repeat it... All things under the sun are gender-specific.

Secondarily, when you say "How do you respond to a guy playing games (stupid text games precisely), and some disrespect?", there is no way anyone can advise you without specific examples. We're not mind readers. Your refusal to give specifics concretely shows that you wrote your post because you were bored and wanted a little attention fix. Oops, bait taken....

 

[instantnoodles]

Check your pm Atom Smasher


This Thread is Done. Thanks All

 

[devilkingx2]

when you say you haven't fed his hamster, are we talking about an actual animal here? cuz that sounds like abuse, and I may need to call the ASPCA