Pierce Manhammer
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For banging? Absolutely.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
A good question for the 40 and over crowd.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Brad Pitt is 60 years old now, that cliche is played out now, maybe 20 years ago sure but now? Gen-Z chicks ain't checking for Brad Pitt like that
Pierce Manhammer
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Not against the odds for someone who still has it. Good work.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I am speaking from experience too. Alot of projections and assumptions in these threads. Our politicians have taught us well.
I guess some 50 something year old men like yourself want to travel the world with women who just turned 18. Guess you can talk about all new pop groups and be a Swiftie!
Correction: Older men who don’t have kids and want kids don’t want them with 46 year menopausal women: They prefer to have them with younger women.
From my own personal limited experience I have much more in common with women around my own age.
Younger women are usually more youthful and attractive depending on genetics (but not always) but are much more annoying and less things in common.
I would sleep with much younger women in a heartbeat but would not consider them relationship material unless they are at least 40 (I’m 56).
Younger women are usually more youthful and attractive depending on genetics (but not always) but are much more annoying and less things in common.
I would sleep with much younger women in a heartbeat but would not consider them relationship material unless they are at least 40 (I’m 56).
One downside with older women I have noticed is that the sh*t tests and level of delusion about their own s*xual market value is off the charts.
I think it’s a consequence of the simp and male thirst epidemic.
The 58 year old I am dating had a guy of 43 chasing her before me.
I think it’s a consequence of the simp and male thirst epidemic.
The 58 year old I am dating had a guy of 43 chasing her before me.
Desdinova
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Whatever "legal" is. If laws didn't exist, we'd be talking about our 14 year old brides.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Millard Fillmore
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When I was 38 I started dating/banging a 21 year old.
At 43 I banged/dated (moreso banged) a 22 year old.
I'm with a girl now but in my late 40s. There's a 21 year old I know who constantly flirts with me when she sees me.
It's a tough life but I keep going. To answer the question, cutoff is whatever the adult age is. If she can vote she can decide if she likes me or not.
At 43 I banged/dated (moreso banged) a 22 year old.
I'm with a girl now but in my late 40s. There's a 21 year old I know who constantly flirts with me when she sees me.
It's a tough life but I keep going. To answer the question, cutoff is whatever the adult age is. If she can vote she can decide if she likes me or not.
Rainman4707
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Im 39. Yes i would LOVE to date an 18 year old. Is'nt that the dream.