Pierce Manhammer
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For banging? Absolutely.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A good question for the 40 and over crowd.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Brad Pitt is 60 years old now, that cliche is played out now, maybe 20 years ago sure but now? Gen-Z chicks ain't checking for Brad Pitt like that
Pierce Manhammer
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Not against the odds for someone who still has it. Good work.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I am speaking from experience too. Alot of projections and assumptions in these threads. Our politicians have taught us well.
I guess some 50 something year old men like yourself want to travel the world with women who just turned 18. Guess you can talk about all new pop groups and be a Swiftie!
Correction: Older men who don’t have kids and want kids don’t want them with 46 year menopausal women: They prefer to have them with younger women.
From my own personal limited experience I have much more in common with women around my own age.
Younger women are usually more youthful and attractive depending on genetics (but not always) but are much more annoying and less things in common.
I would sleep with much younger women in a heartbeat but would not consider them relationship material unless they are at least 40 (I’m 56).
Younger women are usually more youthful and attractive depending on genetics (but not always) but are much more annoying and less things in common.
I would sleep with much younger women in a heartbeat but would not consider them relationship material unless they are at least 40 (I’m 56).
One downside with older women I have noticed is that the sh*t tests and level of delusion about their own s*xual market value is off the charts.
I think it’s a consequence of the simp and male thirst epidemic.
The 58 year old I am dating had a guy of 43 chasing her before me.
I think it’s a consequence of the simp and male thirst epidemic.
The 58 year old I am dating had a guy of 43 chasing her before me.
Desdinova
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Whatever "legal" is. If laws didn't exist, we'd be talking about our 14 year old brides.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Millard Fillmore
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When I was 38 I started dating/banging a 21 year old.
At 43 I banged/dated (moreso banged) a 22 year old.
I'm with a girl now but in my late 40s. There's a 21 year old I know who constantly flirts with me when she sees me.
It's a tough life but I keep going. To answer the question, cutoff is whatever the adult age is. If she can vote she can decide if she likes me or not.
At 43 I banged/dated (moreso banged) a 22 year old.
I'm with a girl now but in my late 40s. There's a 21 year old I know who constantly flirts with me when she sees me.
It's a tough life but I keep going. To answer the question, cutoff is whatever the adult age is. If she can vote she can decide if she likes me or not.
Rainman4707
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Im 39. Yes i would LOVE to date an 18 year old. Is'nt that the dream.