Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A good place to go?

idiot_boyfriend

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Well, I'm planning to ask this HB9 out really soon, but my problem is that I haven't figured out what to do or where we should go.

I'm pretty sure that I don't want to watch a movie: sitting in a dark theater for about two hours while not saying anything to each other is not my idea of a date....unless it's followed or preceded with dinner or something. Plus, I may have a limit on where I can go because a lack of money and no transportation.

Suggestions? Thanks.


*I'm currently siding towards going to the mall.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CapiCrimini

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http://sosuave.com/halloffme/hall168.htm

personally I live right next to a Karaoke bar. But hell once of my first 'dates' was nothing more then dancing with the chick in her basement to her CD player.

Showed up at her house[un-anounced as always :) . I call five minutes before, check if she was home ect.] alone and we hung all night. Didn't spend a penny.

thats a myth. Your there to enjoy each others company not spend cash on her.

Do something to that effect.-

~Capi. there are tons of posts listing ideas if your still drawing a blank. Just ask if you need more or better use the search button.
 

jakeyboy

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well said capi. you don't spend a single cent, yet have fun with her, now there's an idea!
 

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Do something unusual. Go to Wal-Mart or something.

--iMat
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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