"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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idiot_boyfriend

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Well, I'm planning to ask this HB9 out really soon, but my problem is that I haven't figured out what to do or where we should go.

I'm pretty sure that I don't want to watch a movie: sitting in a dark theater for about two hours while not saying anything to each other is not my idea of a date....unless it's followed or preceded with dinner or something. Plus, I may have a limit on where I can go because a lack of money and no transportation.

Suggestions? Thanks.


*I'm currently siding towards going to the mall.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CapiCrimini

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http://sosuave.com/halloffme/hall168.htm

personally I live right next to a Karaoke bar. But hell once of my first 'dates' was nothing more then dancing with the chick in her basement to her CD player.

Showed up at her house[un-anounced as always :) . I call five minutes before, check if she was home ect.] alone and we hung all night. Didn't spend a penny.

thats a myth. Your there to enjoy each others company not spend cash on her.

Do something to that effect.-

~Capi. there are tons of posts listing ideas if your still drawing a blank. Just ask if you need more or better use the search button.
 
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jakeyboy

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well said capi. you don't spend a single cent, yet have fun with her, now there's an idea!
 
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Do something unusual. Go to Wal-Mart or something.

--iMat
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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