"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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idiot_boyfriend

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Well, I'm planning to ask this HB9 out really soon, but my problem is that I haven't figured out what to do or where we should go.

I'm pretty sure that I don't want to watch a movie: sitting in a dark theater for about two hours while not saying anything to each other is not my idea of a date....unless it's followed or preceded with dinner or something. Plus, I may have a limit on where I can go because a lack of money and no transportation.

Suggestions? Thanks.


*I'm currently siding towards going to the mall.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CapiCrimini

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http://sosuave.com/halloffme/hall168.htm

personally I live right next to a Karaoke bar. But hell once of my first 'dates' was nothing more then dancing with the chick in her basement to her CD player.

Showed up at her house[un-anounced as always :) . I call five minutes before, check if she was home ect.] alone and we hung all night. Didn't spend a penny.

thats a myth. Your there to enjoy each others company not spend cash on her.

Do something to that effect.-

~Capi. there are tons of posts listing ideas if your still drawing a blank. Just ask if you need more or better use the search button.
 
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jakeyboy

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well said capi. you don't spend a single cent, yet have fun with her, now there's an idea!
 
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Do something unusual. Go to Wal-Mart or something.

--iMat
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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