"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Leporello

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So last week I met a girl for about half an hour in a coffee shop. Conversations wasn’t bad, considering that this was our first meting..

The entire time, she did the nervous-laugh and not-looking-at-me thing. I’d usually just chalk that up to shyness, but when I walked her back to the metro, she seemed reluctant to stand too close to me, and it made me nervous.

Any ideas as to what’s going on, and whether I should be worried?
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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icallug

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if you just met her you have no need to worry, just go on and try it again with someone else.
 

Leporello

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Whoah, hold on. Should I really give up on her that easily?
 

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Yes, because the things you mentioned are signs of non-interest and it's unlikely you can do anything to change that.
 

Leporello

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I might mention that, as she was leaving, she did hug me trwice, and agree to see me again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DirkPitt

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describe the hug...

and her boob size and also post her number.

haha seroiusly, what kind of hug? 1 arm? 2 arm?
 

Leporello

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Uhh... 2 arm, I think. I really don't remember.
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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If she already consented to a second date, then I see no reason to suspect a lack of interest. You might however mention to her that the last time you two had the pleasure of enjoying each other's company she seemed a bit distracted. :)
 

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Originally posted by DirkPitt
haha seroiusly, what kind of hug? 1 arm? 2 arm?
Whats the difference?
 

JoeyJoJoJunior

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Whats the difference?
Think about it. If a girl holds two arms open and smiles when offering it, she means it. If she does a "hug and run" as I like to call it, sorta pattin you on the back with 1 arm and then its over, she probably didn't mean it and did it to be nice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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