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A good k-close routine?

youngdon

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Well I'm going to the football game with a girl. I've been holding hands with the past two days at school. Now I need to escalate it but I'm stuck at the k-close. Now the football game I'm going to would be perfect to escalate it but I have no idea when or a good routine for a football game is. This has always been the hardest part is the first k-close so any help is appreciated.
 

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I imagined how I would do it. There are two groups of people at varsity football games #1) The people that actually give a **** about their school and are rooting on their team with enjoyment watching their team win/loose. and #2) The people that don't give a **** and use it as more of a social event to hang out with their friends and meet people under the bleachers.

What kind of date do you think you two will be having #1 or #2?

#1 kind of makes it difficult to kiss her during the game. But an idea would be to kino it up with her during the game. Have your arm around her. And during a quite part of the game like during half-time and the marching band is going around turn to her and use your hand to turn her head to yours and kiss her.

#2 She obviously likes to be with YOU since yall are not watching what you came to see. Do you really need much thought into it? She wants you to kiss her.
 

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Boxer said:
I imagined how I would do it. There are two groups of people at varsity football games #1) The people that actually give a **** about their school and are rooting on their team with enjoyment watching their team win/loose. and #2) The people that don't give a **** and use it as more of a social event to hang out with their friends and meet people under the bleachers.

What kind of date do you think you two will be having #1 or #2?

#1 kind of makes it difficult to kiss her during the game. But an idea would be to kino it up with her during the game. Have your arm around her. And during a quite part of the game like during half-time and the marching band is going around turn to her and use your hand to turn her head to yours and kiss her.

#2 She obviously likes to be with YOU since yall are not watching what you came to see. Do you really need much thought into it? She wants you to kiss her.
It would be more number 2. Well I know shes not really into football. She asked me if I was going so she was the one that asked for a date. I know shes wants me to kiss her I just need help with a k-close routine since I can't just kiss her randomly when watching the game otherwise it would feel awkward and forced. I need a good k-close routine since I have never had a sport type date.
 

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