"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A good k-close routine?

youngdon

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Well I'm going to the football game with a girl. I've been holding hands with the past two days at school. Now I need to escalate it but I'm stuck at the k-close. Now the football game I'm going to would be perfect to escalate it but I have no idea when or a good routine for a football game is. This has always been the hardest part is the first k-close so any help is appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I imagined how I would do it. There are two groups of people at varsity football games #1) The people that actually give a **** about their school and are rooting on their team with enjoyment watching their team win/loose. and #2) The people that don't give a **** and use it as more of a social event to hang out with their friends and meet people under the bleachers.

What kind of date do you think you two will be having #1 or #2?

#1 kind of makes it difficult to kiss her during the game. But an idea would be to kino it up with her during the game. Have your arm around her. And during a quite part of the game like during half-time and the marching band is going around turn to her and use your hand to turn her head to yours and kiss her.

#2 She obviously likes to be with YOU since yall are not watching what you came to see. Do you really need much thought into it? She wants you to kiss her.
 

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Boxer said:
I imagined how I would do it. There are two groups of people at varsity football games #1) The people that actually give a **** about their school and are rooting on their team with enjoyment watching their team win/loose. and #2) The people that don't give a **** and use it as more of a social event to hang out with their friends and meet people under the bleachers.

What kind of date do you think you two will be having #1 or #2?

#1 kind of makes it difficult to kiss her during the game. But an idea would be to kino it up with her during the game. Have your arm around her. And during a quite part of the game like during half-time and the marching band is going around turn to her and use your hand to turn her head to yours and kiss her.

#2 She obviously likes to be with YOU since yall are not watching what you came to see. Do you really need much thought into it? She wants you to kiss her.
It would be more number 2. Well I know shes not really into football. She asked me if I was going so she was the one that asked for a date. I know shes wants me to kiss her I just need help with a k-close routine since I can't just kiss her randomly when watching the game otherwise it would feel awkward and forced. I need a good k-close routine since I have never had a sport type date.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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