Well I'm going to the football game with a girl. I've been holding hands with the past two days at school. Now I need to escalate it but I'm stuck at the k-close. Now the football game I'm going to would be perfect to escalate it but I have no idea when or a good routine for a football game is. This has always been the hardest part is the first k-close so any help is appreciated.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
A good k-close routine?
- Thread starter youngdon
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I imagined how I would do it. There are two groups of people at varsity football games #1) The people that actually give a **** about their school and are rooting on their team with enjoyment watching their team win/loose. and #2) The people that don't give a **** and use it as more of a social event to hang out with their friends and meet people under the bleachers.
What kind of date do you think you two will be having #1 or #2?
#1 kind of makes it difficult to kiss her during the game. But an idea would be to kino it up with her during the game. Have your arm around her. And during a quite part of the game like during half-time and the marching band is going around turn to her and use your hand to turn her head to yours and kiss her.
#2 She obviously likes to be with YOU since yall are not watching what you came to see. Do you really need much thought into it? She wants you to kiss her.
What kind of date do you think you two will be having #1 or #2?
#1 kind of makes it difficult to kiss her during the game. But an idea would be to kino it up with her during the game. Have your arm around her. And during a quite part of the game like during half-time and the marching band is going around turn to her and use your hand to turn her head to yours and kiss her.
#2 She obviously likes to be with YOU since yall are not watching what you came to see. Do you really need much thought into it? She wants you to kiss her.
It would be more number 2. Well I know shes not really into football. She asked me if I was going so she was the one that asked for a date. I know shes wants me to kiss her I just need help with a k-close routine since I can't just kiss her randomly when watching the game otherwise it would feel awkward and forced. I need a good k-close routine since I have never had a sport type date.Boxer said:I imagined how I would do it. There are two groups of people at varsity football games #1) The people that actually give a **** about their school and are rooting on their team with enjoyment watching their team win/loose. and #2) The people that don't give a **** and use it as more of a social event to hang out with their friends and meet people under the bleachers.
What kind of date do you think you two will be having #1 or #2?
#1 kind of makes it difficult to kiss her during the game. But an idea would be to kino it up with her during the game. Have your arm around her. And during a quite part of the game like during half-time and the marching band is going around turn to her and use your hand to turn her head to yours and kiss her.
#2 She obviously likes to be with YOU since yall are not watching what you came to see. Do you really need much thought into it? She wants you to kiss her.
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Don Juan
No. No routines...
Just isolation. Escalate. Google search the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. GET HER ALONE and ask her if she likes hugs...
You will know what to do from there.
Just isolation. Escalate. Google search the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. GET HER ALONE and ask her if she likes hugs...
You will know what to do from there.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Captain said:Fvck routines, read the DJ Bible.
Very true. Heres ur routine:
You: "come here" grab their chin and kiss em bro.