"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A good k-close routine?

youngdon

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Well I'm going to the football game with a girl. I've been holding hands with the past two days at school. Now I need to escalate it but I'm stuck at the k-close. Now the football game I'm going to would be perfect to escalate it but I have no idea when or a good routine for a football game is. This has always been the hardest part is the first k-close so any help is appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I imagined how I would do it. There are two groups of people at varsity football games #1) The people that actually give a **** about their school and are rooting on their team with enjoyment watching their team win/loose. and #2) The people that don't give a **** and use it as more of a social event to hang out with their friends and meet people under the bleachers.

What kind of date do you think you two will be having #1 or #2?

#1 kind of makes it difficult to kiss her during the game. But an idea would be to kino it up with her during the game. Have your arm around her. And during a quite part of the game like during half-time and the marching band is going around turn to her and use your hand to turn her head to yours and kiss her.

#2 She obviously likes to be with YOU since yall are not watching what you came to see. Do you really need much thought into it? She wants you to kiss her.
 

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Boxer said:
I imagined how I would do it. There are two groups of people at varsity football games #1) The people that actually give a **** about their school and are rooting on their team with enjoyment watching their team win/loose. and #2) The people that don't give a **** and use it as more of a social event to hang out with their friends and meet people under the bleachers.

What kind of date do you think you two will be having #1 or #2?

#1 kind of makes it difficult to kiss her during the game. But an idea would be to kino it up with her during the game. Have your arm around her. And during a quite part of the game like during half-time and the marching band is going around turn to her and use your hand to turn her head to yours and kiss her.

#2 She obviously likes to be with YOU since yall are not watching what you came to see. Do you really need much thought into it? She wants you to kiss her.
It would be more number 2. Well I know shes not really into football. She asked me if I was going so she was the one that asked for a date. I know shes wants me to kiss her I just need help with a k-close routine since I can't just kiss her randomly when watching the game otherwise it would feel awkward and forced. I need a good k-close routine since I have never had a sport type date.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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