"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sbgm

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Hello!
This girl in my class, our personalities fit together. The first time I saw her, I was maybe in love, but I dunno. That day I saw her, the only thing I could think of was her and I was thinking of making a song to her. But the same day, the casanova at my swimteam said he was hitting on her, so I gave up cause I knew that he would take him before me.

So they dated, but they didn't fit together. And I was functioning like a messenger between them and I told the girl that she could give up on the casanova, and so she did. I was hitting a bit on her and now, a special situation has become.

When I kino her, she moves away - but in a teasy way, and when she says like "Oh, I don't wanna go alone to the library" i said "I can go with you" then she teased me and said "No, I rather go alone then".

Today, she told the table where we were sitting that she would change class. I looked at her, and she totally avoided eye-contact.

Is this a sign? Should I go for her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When I kino her, she moves away - but in a teasy way, and when she says like "Oh, I don't wanna go alone to the library" i said "I can go with you" then she teased me and said "No, I rather go alone then".
Do you end up going with her?

Today, she told the table where we were sitting that she would change class. I looked at her, and she totally avoided eye-contact.
Yeah....so...is she doing it for a reason?
 

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No i didn't end up going with her, and I don't know the reason for not making eye-contact, but I know she did it with purpose.
 

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ROFL, this is pretty pathetic, read the dj bible, move on she dosne have intrest.
 

sbgm

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what do you other DJ's have to say?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Black Circle

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Let me ask you this, what do you consider to be hitting on her?
 

sbgm

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jokin with her, I've got a special humour and with my humour, i can tell them jokes about themselves and make them laugh about themselves, such... I can't explain it. I also tease her, using kino, etc
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ug, you thought you were in love with her?!? dude big mistake, it doesnt look like she has any interest,next her and move on

Get to reading the dj bible
 

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sbgm said:
Hello!
This girl in my class, our personalities fit together. The first time I saw her, I was maybe in love, but I dunno. That day I saw her, the only thing I could think of was her and I was thinking of making a song to her. But the same day, the casanova at my swimteam said he was hitting on her, so I gave up cause I knew that he would take him before me.

So they dated, but they didn't fit together. And I was functioning like a messenger between them and I told the girl that she could give up on the casanova, and so she did. I was hitting a bit on her and now, a special situation has become.

When I kino her, she moves away - but in a teasy way, and when she says like "Oh, I don't wanna go alone to the library" i said "I can go with you" then she teased me and said "No, I rather go alone then".

Today, she told the table where we were sitting that she would change class. I looked at her, and she totally avoided eye-contact.

Is this a sign? Should I go for her?
Opposite. You were not in love with her, you are infatuated. Also, every single one of those things you listed was a sign of disinterest. If she was interested: she'd want you to go to the library with her, she would not move
away when you kino her, and she would hold eye contact, or if she was shy she might giggle when she looked away. Forget it, dude. Her IL isn't high.
 

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been there done that

I had one like that ,sorta, cept she liked me. For some reason everyone made me not talk to her( was alittle weird-like me). NEXTUP!
 

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you better not write a song for her

that's the most AFC sh!t i've ever heard..

and yes, go for her...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I would try the song idea, than maybe a giant pink teddy bear holding a heart shaped box of chocolates with a note containing a confession of your undieing love for her. If that doesn't work than try playing peter gabriel on a boom box standing outside her bedroom window at eleven at night. Hell why not just ask her to marry you?

Either go for it and see what happens, or just get over her dude.
 

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thank you guys, thats just what i needed...
... i think i'm gonna read the DJ Bible...
 
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