"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A girl I've had my eyes on for 3 years - recent facebook chat

Desdinova

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there is no way I would be focusing on a disinterested chick for that long. Too easy to simply go out and find a woman who is interested.
I find I have an easier time with a little bit of patience and a little bit of effort. Maybe you find that works better for you and your personality, but it doesn't for me. I find that my women stick around longer when I put a bit of effort in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I find I have an easier time with a little bit of patience and a little bit of effort. Maybe you find that works better for you and your personality, but it doesn't for me. I find that my women stick around longer when I put a bit of effort in.
Hey fair enough...I suppose maybe it would have worked if I gave it a chance, but I'm quick to cut bait. Fair play to you.
 

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I highly doubt that you banged 30 girls with your 'game'. lmao.
Yeah ur right bro. I do super sonic meditation so I just looked into their eyes and they took their panties off right away. No game involved
 

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Highly disagreed. If he were trying to talk about work, studying or the weather, then I would agree. His texts are on the fun side of things. She would look forward to hearing from him.

After not being in communication with her for a long time, he needs to build up rapport again. If anything, I think he jumped the gun too quickly on asking her out. Building rapport through texting can be done, but it takes a bit more time.

His texting style is very similar to mine. It's very light-hearted and fun. There's no way in hell she's bored with his texts.

OP, keep in contact with her and keep the conversation fun. Try to add a bit of flirting into it. Do it for about a week and try asking her out again. If you get rejected again, then cut contact and move on.
I'll try doing that

Biggest challenge for me in the game since day 1 has been my ego. In business/school situaifons it has kinda helped me dominate while not being a bully but I think it becomes a pitfall in the game for me. I'll try to conversate next week or so.
 

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Your next text should be "Lets catch up over a drink next XXXday. I'm done with class at XX:00."

Then meet in person and talk about all your similarities.

For this to progress you need to be in person....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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