“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A girl I've had my eyes on for 3 years - recent facebook chat

Desdinova

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there is no way I would be focusing on a disinterested chick for that long. Too easy to simply go out and find a woman who is interested.
I find I have an easier time with a little bit of patience and a little bit of effort. Maybe you find that works better for you and your personality, but it doesn't for me. I find that my women stick around longer when I put a bit of effort in.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

marmel75

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I find I have an easier time with a little bit of patience and a little bit of effort. Maybe you find that works better for you and your personality, but it doesn't for me. I find that my women stick around longer when I put a bit of effort in.
Hey fair enough...I suppose maybe it would have worked if I gave it a chance, but I'm quick to cut bait. Fair play to you.
 

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I highly doubt that you banged 30 girls with your 'game'. lmao.
Yeah ur right bro. I do super sonic meditation so I just looked into their eyes and they took their panties off right away. No game involved
 

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Highly disagreed. If he were trying to talk about work, studying or the weather, then I would agree. His texts are on the fun side of things. She would look forward to hearing from him.

After not being in communication with her for a long time, he needs to build up rapport again. If anything, I think he jumped the gun too quickly on asking her out. Building rapport through texting can be done, but it takes a bit more time.

His texting style is very similar to mine. It's very light-hearted and fun. There's no way in hell she's bored with his texts.

OP, keep in contact with her and keep the conversation fun. Try to add a bit of flirting into it. Do it for about a week and try asking her out again. If you get rejected again, then cut contact and move on.
I'll try doing that

Biggest challenge for me in the game since day 1 has been my ego. In business/school situaifons it has kinda helped me dominate while not being a bully but I think it becomes a pitfall in the game for me. I'll try to conversate next week or so.
 

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Your next text should be "Lets catch up over a drink next XXXday. I'm done with class at XX:00."

Then meet in person and talk about all your similarities.

For this to progress you need to be in person....
 
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