"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A girl I've had my eyes on for 3 years - recent facebook chat

Desdinova

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there is no way I would be focusing on a disinterested chick for that long. Too easy to simply go out and find a woman who is interested.
I find I have an easier time with a little bit of patience and a little bit of effort. Maybe you find that works better for you and your personality, but it doesn't for me. I find that my women stick around longer when I put a bit of effort in.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marmel75

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I find I have an easier time with a little bit of patience and a little bit of effort. Maybe you find that works better for you and your personality, but it doesn't for me. I find that my women stick around longer when I put a bit of effort in.
Hey fair enough...I suppose maybe it would have worked if I gave it a chance, but I'm quick to cut bait. Fair play to you.
 

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I highly doubt that you banged 30 girls with your 'game'. lmao.
Yeah ur right bro. I do super sonic meditation so I just looked into their eyes and they took their panties off right away. No game involved
 

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Highly disagreed. If he were trying to talk about work, studying or the weather, then I would agree. His texts are on the fun side of things. She would look forward to hearing from him.

After not being in communication with her for a long time, he needs to build up rapport again. If anything, I think he jumped the gun too quickly on asking her out. Building rapport through texting can be done, but it takes a bit more time.

His texting style is very similar to mine. It's very light-hearted and fun. There's no way in hell she's bored with his texts.

OP, keep in contact with her and keep the conversation fun. Try to add a bit of flirting into it. Do it for about a week and try asking her out again. If you get rejected again, then cut contact and move on.
I'll try doing that

Biggest challenge for me in the game since day 1 has been my ego. In business/school situaifons it has kinda helped me dominate while not being a bully but I think it becomes a pitfall in the game for me. I'll try to conversate next week or so.
 

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Your next text should be "Lets catch up over a drink next XXXday. I'm done with class at XX:00."

Then meet in person and talk about all your similarities.

For this to progress you need to be in person....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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