"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A girl in my english class is DJing me !?

Thraxeh

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in my english class, i sit next to this girl who i have known for about 1 year. were not even friends, just know each other's names, and thats it.

basicly i have no attraction towards this girl, but she is pulling all this DJ **** on me, and its driving me nuts.

when i say DJ, i mean shes saying all this C/f stuff, and is trying all this kino. its quite obvious that she likes me, but i cant stand her, shes ****ing annoying.

i need some anti DJ stuff so i can put her off me as much as possible, any one have any ideas ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Thraxeh
in my english class, i sit next to this girl who i have known for about 1 year. were not even friends, just know each other's names, and thats it.

basicly i have no attraction towards this girl, but she is pulling all this DJ **** on me, and its driving me nuts.

when i say DJ, i mean shes saying all this C/f stuff, and is trying all this kino. its quite obvious that she likes me, but i cant stand her, shes ****ing annoying.

i need some anti DJ stuff so i can put her off me as much as possible, any one have any ideas ?

fart on her.
 

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ego thread or no?

she ****able? if the answer is yes, then **** her mad. :D

basically ignore her if she's really that annoying.
 

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You could always do the opposite of DJing...Be the biggest AFC you can on her. Give her so much attention, she can't stand it.

Or, you know, just tell her to back off.
 

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Become the biggest AFC to her (hell do what fingz did saying that you love her so much. Women usually back off)

just use ******** on her(the new bible has all the ******** posts in them :))

it ain't hard to figure it out
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by baseballDJ
Become the biggest AFC to her (hell do what fingz did saying that you love her so much. Women usually back off)

just use ******** on her(the new bible has all the ******** posts in them :))

it ain't hard to figure it out
Got to love shameless plugs. :D
 

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And to think BACK IN THE DAY you would simply inform the person that you are not interrested.
 
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