"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A girl in my english class is DJing me !?

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in my english class, i sit next to this girl who i have known for about 1 year. were not even friends, just know each other's names, and thats it.

basicly i have no attraction towards this girl, but she is pulling all this DJ **** on me, and its driving me nuts.

when i say DJ, i mean shes saying all this C/f stuff, and is trying all this kino. its quite obvious that she likes me, but i cant stand her, shes ****ing annoying.

i need some anti DJ stuff so i can put her off me as much as possible, any one have any ideas ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Thraxeh
in my english class, i sit next to this girl who i have known for about 1 year. were not even friends, just know each other's names, and thats it.

basicly i have no attraction towards this girl, but she is pulling all this DJ **** on me, and its driving me nuts.

when i say DJ, i mean shes saying all this C/f stuff, and is trying all this kino. its quite obvious that she likes me, but i cant stand her, shes ****ing annoying.

i need some anti DJ stuff so i can put her off me as much as possible, any one have any ideas ?
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fart on her.
 
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ego thread or no?

she ****able? if the answer is yes, then **** her mad. :D

basically ignore her if she's really that annoying.
 
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You could always do the opposite of DJing...Be the biggest AFC you can on her. Give her so much attention, she can't stand it.

Or, you know, just tell her to back off.
 
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Become the biggest AFC to her (hell do what fingz did saying that you love her so much. Women usually back off)

just use ******** on her(the new bible has all the ******** posts in them :))

it ain't hard to figure it out
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by baseballDJ
Become the biggest AFC to her (hell do what fingz did saying that you love her so much. Women usually back off)

just use ******** on her(the new bible has all the ******** posts in them :))

it ain't hard to figure it out
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Got to love shameless plugs. :D
 
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And to think BACK IN THE DAY you would simply inform the person that you are not interrested.
 
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