"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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A girl in my english class is DJing me !?

Thraxeh

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in my english class, i sit next to this girl who i have known for about 1 year. were not even friends, just know each other's names, and thats it.

basicly i have no attraction towards this girl, but she is pulling all this DJ **** on me, and its driving me nuts.

when i say DJ, i mean shes saying all this C/f stuff, and is trying all this kino. its quite obvious that she likes me, but i cant stand her, shes ****ing annoying.

i need some anti DJ stuff so i can put her off me as much as possible, any one have any ideas ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Thraxeh
in my english class, i sit next to this girl who i have known for about 1 year. were not even friends, just know each other's names, and thats it.

basicly i have no attraction towards this girl, but she is pulling all this DJ **** on me, and its driving me nuts.

when i say DJ, i mean shes saying all this C/f stuff, and is trying all this kino. its quite obvious that she likes me, but i cant stand her, shes ****ing annoying.

i need some anti DJ stuff so i can put her off me as much as possible, any one have any ideas ?

fart on her.
 

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ego thread or no?

she ****able? if the answer is yes, then **** her mad. :D

basically ignore her if she's really that annoying.
 

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You could always do the opposite of DJing...Be the biggest AFC you can on her. Give her so much attention, she can't stand it.

Or, you know, just tell her to back off.
 

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Become the biggest AFC to her (hell do what fingz did saying that you love her so much. Women usually back off)

just use ******** on her(the new bible has all the ******** posts in them :))

it ain't hard to figure it out
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by baseballDJ
Become the biggest AFC to her (hell do what fingz did saying that you love her so much. Women usually back off)

just use ******** on her(the new bible has all the ******** posts in them :))

it ain't hard to figure it out
Got to love shameless plugs. :D
 

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And to think BACK IN THE DAY you would simply inform the person that you are not interrested.
 
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