"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A girl in my english class is DJing me !?

Thraxeh

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in my english class, i sit next to this girl who i have known for about 1 year. were not even friends, just know each other's names, and thats it.

basicly i have no attraction towards this girl, but she is pulling all this DJ **** on me, and its driving me nuts.

when i say DJ, i mean shes saying all this C/f stuff, and is trying all this kino. its quite obvious that she likes me, but i cant stand her, shes ****ing annoying.

i need some anti DJ stuff so i can put her off me as much as possible, any one have any ideas ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jester

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Originally posted by Thraxeh
in my english class, i sit next to this girl who i have known for about 1 year. were not even friends, just know each other's names, and thats it.

basicly i have no attraction towards this girl, but she is pulling all this DJ **** on me, and its driving me nuts.

when i say DJ, i mean shes saying all this C/f stuff, and is trying all this kino. its quite obvious that she likes me, but i cant stand her, shes ****ing annoying.

i need some anti DJ stuff so i can put her off me as much as possible, any one have any ideas ?

fart on her.
 

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ego thread or no?

she ****able? if the answer is yes, then **** her mad. :D

basically ignore her if she's really that annoying.
 

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You could always do the opposite of DJing...Be the biggest AFC you can on her. Give her so much attention, she can't stand it.

Or, you know, just tell her to back off.
 

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Become the biggest AFC to her (hell do what fingz did saying that you love her so much. Women usually back off)

just use ******** on her(the new bible has all the ******** posts in them :))

it ain't hard to figure it out
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by baseballDJ
Become the biggest AFC to her (hell do what fingz did saying that you love her so much. Women usually back off)

just use ******** on her(the new bible has all the ******** posts in them :))

it ain't hard to figure it out
Got to love shameless plugs. :D
 

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And to think BACK IN THE DAY you would simply inform the person that you are not interrested.
 
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