Lonsome man
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There's a girl i really like but I don't know if she likes me in the same way I do. So how can I find out if she does, but I think she knows I like her like that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
A Girl I Really Like
- Thread starter Lonsome man
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
every 1 will tell you aks her out, and sure that will give you the definite answer but you are probalby not prepaired to do that. Talk to her and just read the signals you get, ask her to hang out with you sometime and see how she reacts, see how open she is to you, how she reacts to kino etc..
hope iv been a help
hope iv been a help
Omg! You too?! I can relate man, I have this same exact problem.
Ok so we haven't been friends in awhile but I haven't ever stopped thinking about her. I mean, I try to do everything she wants and make her happy but I'm still not sure if she likes me. I think I'm gonna go tell her how I feel about her so she can tell me how she feels about me. I can't stop touching myself in class when I am reminded of her (even numbers look like her nice ass). Every time we talk I have this wierd feeling in my chest like I'm blocked and can't breathe or something. She's intoxicating. Wow, what a girl! We've only gone on dates in my head so far but soon we'll have a real one and I'll listen to all her guy problems and show that I am a sensitive caring guy.
Do you feel the same?!!?
Ok so we haven't been friends in awhile but I haven't ever stopped thinking about her. I mean, I try to do everything she wants and make her happy but I'm still not sure if she likes me. I think I'm gonna go tell her how I feel about her so she can tell me how she feels about me. I can't stop touching myself in class when I am reminded of her (even numbers look like her nice ass). Every time we talk I have this wierd feeling in my chest like I'm blocked and can't breathe or something. She's intoxicating. Wow, what a girl! We've only gone on dates in my head so far but soon we'll have a real one and I'll listen to all her guy problems and show that I am a sensitive caring guy.
Do you feel the same?!!?
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
please tell me you are joking
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Michael Chief
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lol
that was hillarious
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Ask her out as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the greater her chance of losing interest.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
I don't know if you can't read or see either, but at the top of the High School Forum is a thread entitled: "Newbies - READ ME!"
In case you don't understand...
CLICK HERE: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=35571
In case you don't understand...
CLICK HERE: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=35571
Evil-Rom
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hey that question has never been asked before k
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Whoa buddy, you're going in circles here.
Sounds like you only have two options:
Option #1: tie your love note to a brick and throw it at her window.
Option #2: tie your love note to a brick and throw it at her face.
Hopefully, both will lead to the intended result.
OR
You can do the completely crazy, wild, untested, and unorthodox way and ask her out.... but who'd want to do that when you could have brick fun?
TinyFzzyKiwi
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you beat me to it