"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a facebook observation, anyone else see this?

betheman

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the married 'friends' I have on FB and those I know but who aren't 'friends' have their own profiles. however what I am noticing more and more is that a lot the females have their own individual best pic as their profile whereas the men have a 'couple' photo on.
what is going on here?
my own take is that women cannot stop gaming, facebook/social media is a social platform and as such, women still have to, subconsciously, put it out there so to speak. Id go as far as to say she is inviting offers, seeing what is out there, this maybe just for an ego boost, attention seeking but as we all know, if the right offer comes along at the right time and the deal seems good....
if I was married and my wife was doing this, Id be a little concerned.
any thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the_stig

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Just checked three random facebook married couples: two both had couple pictures as their display imagine, the third is my good friend who is totally controlled by his wife. He has a couples picture, she has a picture of herself in cute yoga pants posing by some landscape.
 

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Facebook is THE biggest platform for attention *****s. One of my ex-gf's would receive messages all the time from ex bf's or guys she went to school with and sometimes just trolls who she didn't know. Even the men on facebook are as bad as the girls, taking selfies... and posting stuff 50 times a day jonesing for 'likes'... As far as couples go I have 40-50 couples on my profile and it's split pretty evenly down the middle concerning pics alone or as a couple. Same thing too I see some of the girls have sexy profile pics and the guys has one with her and the kids... Just typical AFC behavior that extends into the digital world!!!
 

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the_stig said:
Just checked three random facebook married couples: two both had couple pictures as their display imagine, the third is my good friend who is totally controlled by his wife. He has a couples picture, she has a picture of herself in cute yoga pants posing by some landscape.
I've seen it work both ways though. Sometimes the guy puts up picture of him and his wife/girlfriend as a front. So it looks like they're this nice happy couple and makes her feel all warm and fuzzy inside.....meanwhile he's off banging away.....
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I've seen it work both ways though. Sometimes the guy puts up picture of him and his wife/girlfriend as a front. So it looks like they're this nice happy couple and makes her feel all warm and fuzzy inside.....meanwhile he's off banging away.....

I agree but I would say that for the most part ie. 90% of most relationships on FB, the guys are pu$$ywh!ipd and the girl is looking to spin some plates on her own.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sylvester the cat

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HyperAnalyze said:
I agree but I would say that for the most part ie. 90% of most relationships on FB, the guys are pu$$ywh!ipd and the girl is looking to spin some plates on her own.
90%?

And we came to this conclusion based on which statistical evidence? or did you mean 90% of people you know?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
90%?

And we came to this conclusion based on which statistical evidence? or did you mean 90% of people you know?

Ah... People I know... People I know... lol
 

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The sooner you delete your FB the happier you will be. I did it in April and I haven't looked back. FB doesn't work for guys unless you're famous.
 

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Danger said:
I see a similar dynamic.....

But more along the lines of, every mother in a family has endless pics of her child, but next to nothing of her husband....if any pics at all.

The worse is the Single mothers....It's endless pics and vids
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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