"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A Don Juan

gtownjuan

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The following denotes aspects of Don Juan as I see him.

He:

Has Confidence – strong believe in self and abilities no matter what
 Is A Challenge – spontaneous and mysterious
 Posses The Right Attitude – “I am the prize”
 Is Patient – believes that he will succeed no matter how bad it looks
 Is Persistent/Determined – doesn’t give up in hard times
 Embraces Sexuality - does not apologise for his actions nor does he regret them
 Is Physically Fit – works out and eats good food
 Is Playful – fun loving, ****y and funny, witty, and a goofball at times
 Is Very Social - people naturally come to him
 Is a Rare Commodity – has a distinct style to doing things
 Has Healthy Hygiene – is neat and free of negatives
 Is Quite Assertive – strands for what he believes and never backs down
 Is Goal Filled – has things he wants to be done
 Is Adaptive – appropriately responsive to changes
 Has Self Control – capable of directing will
 Is Understanding – knows what’s going on
 Is Decisive – able to read people and situations well
 Follows Instinct – natural ability to act/react or not
 Is Knowledgeable - knows the facts of many different things
 Is Focused and Deliberate - able to easily allocate concentration and attention
 Is Smart – a wise decision maker
 Is passionate – loves what he does
 Is Genuine – is direct and honest
 Is Positive – sees the good in everything
 Understands and controls his emotions
 Is Motivated – has inspiration ingrained in his thoughts

Well this is a Don Juan to me. And I encourage you guys to add the qualities you think he should have.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PrinceBeavis

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Great list.

'? Is a Class Act - Balances Outlaw/Badboy persona with the Gentleman.'
' ? Is Equitable - Seeks the best situation for all involved, and helps others.'
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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meitenesrigas

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If you find me someone like that I will sleep with him! Come back to reality. Please.
 

meitenesrigas

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gtownjuan said:
Check me back in a year
Will do.
This calls for a private message. :cool:

Zeus, Jesus Christ, Mohammed, Jim Jones, and now you. This is so f---- cool.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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