"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Don Juan

gtownjuan

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The following denotes aspects of Don Juan as I see him.

He:

Has Confidence – strong believe in self and abilities no matter what
 Is A Challenge – spontaneous and mysterious
 Posses The Right Attitude – “I am the prize”
 Is Patient – believes that he will succeed no matter how bad it looks
 Is Persistent/Determined – doesn’t give up in hard times
 Embraces Sexuality - does not apologise for his actions nor does he regret them
 Is Physically Fit – works out and eats good food
 Is Playful – fun loving, ****y and funny, witty, and a goofball at times
 Is Very Social - people naturally come to him
 Is a Rare Commodity – has a distinct style to doing things
 Has Healthy Hygiene – is neat and free of negatives
 Is Quite Assertive – strands for what he believes and never backs down
 Is Goal Filled – has things he wants to be done
 Is Adaptive – appropriately responsive to changes
 Has Self Control – capable of directing will
 Is Understanding – knows what’s going on
 Is Decisive – able to read people and situations well
 Follows Instinct – natural ability to act/react or not
 Is Knowledgeable - knows the facts of many different things
 Is Focused and Deliberate - able to easily allocate concentration and attention
 Is Smart – a wise decision maker
 Is passionate – loves what he does
 Is Genuine – is direct and honest
 Is Positive – sees the good in everything
 Understands and controls his emotions
 Is Motivated – has inspiration ingrained in his thoughts

Well this is a Don Juan to me. And I encourage you guys to add the qualities you think he should have.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PrinceBeavis

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Great list.

'? Is a Class Act - Balances Outlaw/Badboy persona with the Gentleman.'
' ? Is Equitable - Seeks the best situation for all involved, and helps others.'
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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meitenesrigas

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If you find me someone like that I will sleep with him! Come back to reality. Please.
 

meitenesrigas

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gtownjuan said:
Check me back in a year
Will do.
This calls for a private message. :cool:

Zeus, Jesus Christ, Mohammed, Jim Jones, and now you. This is so f---- cool.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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