"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A Don Juan

gtownjuan

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The following denotes aspects of Don Juan as I see him.

He:

Has Confidence – strong believe in self and abilities no matter what
 Is A Challenge – spontaneous and mysterious
 Posses The Right Attitude – “I am the prize”
 Is Patient – believes that he will succeed no matter how bad it looks
 Is Persistent/Determined – doesn’t give up in hard times
 Embraces Sexuality - does not apologise for his actions nor does he regret them
 Is Physically Fit – works out and eats good food
 Is Playful – fun loving, ****y and funny, witty, and a goofball at times
 Is Very Social - people naturally come to him
 Is a Rare Commodity – has a distinct style to doing things
 Has Healthy Hygiene – is neat and free of negatives
 Is Quite Assertive – strands for what he believes and never backs down
 Is Goal Filled – has things he wants to be done
 Is Adaptive – appropriately responsive to changes
 Has Self Control – capable of directing will
 Is Understanding – knows what’s going on
 Is Decisive – able to read people and situations well
 Follows Instinct – natural ability to act/react or not
 Is Knowledgeable - knows the facts of many different things
 Is Focused and Deliberate - able to easily allocate concentration and attention
 Is Smart – a wise decision maker
 Is passionate – loves what he does
 Is Genuine – is direct and honest
 Is Positive – sees the good in everything
 Understands and controls his emotions
 Is Motivated – has inspiration ingrained in his thoughts

Well this is a Don Juan to me. And I encourage you guys to add the qualities you think he should have.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PrinceBeavis

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Great list.

'? Is a Class Act - Balances Outlaw/Badboy persona with the Gentleman.'
' ? Is Equitable - Seeks the best situation for all involved, and helps others.'
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you find me someone like that I will sleep with him! Come back to reality. Please.
 

meitenesrigas

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gtownjuan said:
Check me back in a year
Will do.
This calls for a private message. :cool:

Zeus, Jesus Christ, Mohammed, Jim Jones, and now you. This is so f---- cool.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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