"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The following denotes aspects of Don Juan as I see him.

He:

Has Confidence – strong believe in self and abilities no matter what
 Is A Challenge – spontaneous and mysterious
 Posses The Right Attitude – “I am the prize”
 Is Patient – believes that he will succeed no matter how bad it looks
 Is Persistent/Determined – doesn’t give up in hard times
 Embraces Sexuality - does not apologise for his actions nor does he regret them
 Is Physically Fit – works out and eats good food
 Is Playful – fun loving, ****y and funny, witty, and a goofball at times
 Is Very Social - people naturally come to him
 Is a Rare Commodity – has a distinct style to doing things
 Has Healthy Hygiene – is neat and free of negatives
 Is Quite Assertive – strands for what he believes and never backs down
 Is Goal Filled – has things he wants to be done
 Is Adaptive – appropriately responsive to changes
 Has Self Control – capable of directing will
 Is Understanding – knows what’s going on
 Is Decisive – able to read people and situations well
 Follows Instinct – natural ability to act/react or not
 Is Knowledgeable - knows the facts of many different things
 Is Focused and Deliberate - able to easily allocate concentration and attention
 Is Smart – a wise decision maker
 Is passionate – loves what he does
 Is Genuine – is direct and honest
 Is Positive – sees the good in everything
 Understands and controls his emotions
 Is Motivated – has inspiration ingrained in his thoughts

Well this is a Don Juan to me. And I encourage you guys to add the qualities you think he should have.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PrinceBeavis

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Great list.

'? Is a Class Act - Balances Outlaw/Badboy persona with the Gentleman.'
' ? Is Equitable - Seeks the best situation for all involved, and helps others.'
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you find me someone like that I will sleep with him! Come back to reality. Please.
 

meitenesrigas

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gtownjuan said:
Check me back in a year
Will do.
This calls for a private message. :cool:

Zeus, Jesus Christ, Mohammed, Jim Jones, and now you. This is so f---- cool.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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