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A complicated position, need some experienced advice...
- Thread starter mikehelms
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
personally, i would shoot her a text saying something along the lines of, "whoops, missed your drunk texts last night lol". so that it isn't too obvious you are turning up your game.
it is obvious that you are gonna get these eventually, so i wouldn't make it so blatant that you are "turning on your game" so to speak.
another angle could be just to invite her out to a social gathering with mutual friends, as opposed to a place to lay her. don't be attached to the outcome, and just have fun. if she's diggin you, she'll give you signs.
i would hold out in contacting her, especially if you always see each other at certain hangouts. give it some more time and chat her up a little when you see her.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
As far as dealing with her, and guitar dude (who again, I am friendly with)
Thanks guys.
Iwas thinking doing flirty stuff like grabbing her ass when no one is paying attention, then just going back to what I was doing... yeah?
Thing is, whenever we're both on facebook she ALWAYS chats me up within minutes of seeing me online and wants to talk forever, until I inevitably cut it short because I'm busy. If I was in the complete friend zone I wouldn't see why she's want to talk to me nonstop, but I could be way off base here. Who knows. She's def. still into the other guy and I just have to deal with that, and I don't really know how other than pretending that I don't notice / it doesn't faze me and just act the same around her.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Mikley, mikey mikey, a lot of women have no scruples in their relationships with men. To them, the end justifies the means. And the end in this case is this -mikehelms said:Thing is, whenever we're both on facebook she ALWAYS chats me up within minutes of seeing me online and wants to talk forever, until I inevitably cut it short because I'm busy. If I was in the complete friend zone I wouldn't see why she's want to talk to me nonstop, but I could be way off base here.
She is using you to fill the vacant parts that are left in her emotional life by her detached, guitar whiz, bada$$ B/f. To her, this is quite OK , even though you can bet her B/f does not know about it.
Why do you think that woman recruit 'orbiters' ?
The answer to that is exactly why she recruited you.
Abandon this chase man. IT isn't going to happen for you...You are starting to come off like some soppy lovesick teenage chick who is hot for some zitty brat who plays in a garage band.
Take up the saxophone and get your own groupies..
Just saying.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Geez, Drunk texting hardly equates to high INTEREST level .Thats really a stretch.mikehelms said:Talked to her for a few mins and took off to another bar. Woke up today to 2 drunken texts from her, just randomness. "Heeeyyy" and "Yooooohooo"
Can't be bad, obviously I'm on her mind it seems. And obviously I didn't reply.
Secondly , her articulation is primitive. I can imagine a farmhand yelling out those utterances to some milk cows. That are not what I would call affectionate.
Thirdly, how do you conclude that a drunken text is a sure indication of her "having you on her mind " ?
You are trying to make sense out of nonsense.
Post back when she is smiling and unzipping in front of you at your house.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
..and vocalists are too, they can almost be worse sometimes.
Always remember.. if she ain't showing any class, put it in her a$$.