Eternal_water
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genuine question
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
90 day no fap journal.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Fatal Jay
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It's your brain
if you start to have a porn addiction, your brain will not respond to whenever your around a real women, that's why a lot of guys penis won't get erect, because the amount of porn they watch.
See with porn you can switch to different types of porn under an hour, which is not like reality, your brain uses up a lot of endorphins when your watching all that porn, but your endorphins never flare when your with that one woman/one situation.
A lot of young and old guys have ed based upon porn addiction. Can it be undone, yes ed can be cured. But it comes with a price
you will have to go 3 to 5 months with no porn no fapping at all if you want your brain to return to normal. To be honest, you must rid yourself of porn forever.
It's your brain
if you start to have a porn addiction, your brain will not respond to whenever your around a real women, that's why a lot of guys penis won't get erect, because the amount of porn they watch.
See with porn you can switch to different types of porn under an hour, which is not like reality, your brain uses up a lot of endorphins when your watching all that porn, but your endorphins never flare when your with that one woman/one situation.
A lot of young and old guys have ed based upon porn addiction. Can it be undone, yes ed can be cured. But it comes with a price
you will have to go 3 to 5 months with no porn no fapping at all if you want your brain to return to normal. To be honest, you must rid yourself of porn forever.
It's probably a bad idea to call that "erectile dysfunction." (1) As they age, men have reduced response and require greater sensory stimulation. Every 20-something man becomes aware that he has far less arousal than he did in his mid-teens. (2) A man who masturbates is satisfying his sexual desire as if he had a woman, which makes him unenthusiastic / less energetic about courtship. Again, this is normal and well known.
The world is a series of simple truths. There's no reason to embellish them. Men court and mate with women because they are instinctively driven to do so. Masturbation is self-consolation for failure, little different from an infant sucking his thumb when he can't get the tit. Most men grow out of the need to self-console, or replace it healthily with coitus. So I just don't see the need to grasp at straws about how masturbation makes one go blind, or the like.
The world is a series of simple truths. There's no reason to embellish them. Men court and mate with women because they are instinctively driven to do so. Masturbation is self-consolation for failure, little different from an infant sucking his thumb when he can't get the tit. Most men grow out of the need to self-console, or replace it healthily with coitus. So I just don't see the need to grasp at straws about how masturbation makes one go blind, or the like.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SpazzAttackk
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I dont know about OP, but after a long day at work I usually feel like rubbing one out quicklyFatal Jay said:
I apologize eternal water, I thought that was an attempt at trolling I didn't bother clicking on the links. But no I plan on staying away from any type of stimulation other than a real female.
Down low it probably was poor manners, but I'm self interested and I thought he was trolling.
For me masturbation isn't even just admitting defeat that I can't get a girl its just a way to get off quickly (3-5 min.)
The main reason that I am doing this is because the last two girls I attempted to have sex with I couldn't get a good 100% boner, I could get stiff but not hard enough to really be effective. During this time I was probably spending 2-3 hours a week watching porn and I was watching several different kinds of porn. Then I began researching it and I'm pretty sure that porn was my problem. So no I'm not done masturbation for forever, but I am done with porn.
Down low it probably was poor manners, but I'm self interested and I thought he was trolling.
For me masturbation isn't even just admitting defeat that I can't get a girl its just a way to get off quickly (3-5 min.)
The main reason that I am doing this is because the last two girls I attempted to have sex with I couldn't get a good 100% boner, I could get stiff but not hard enough to really be effective. During this time I was probably spending 2-3 hours a week watching porn and I was watching several different kinds of porn. Then I began researching it and I'm pretty sure that porn was my problem. So no I'm not done masturbation for forever, but I am done with porn.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
JohnChops
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No fap + no plates = disaster lol. For me I was wound up tighter than a slinky. Hard cardio helps relieves any temptation if you get any. Interesting log man I'll be following.DJ Bax said:
Ufcrocks1969
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Cut all sources of protein, meats, nuts ( that includes soy sauce, spicy foods, garlic and onions. If you can't cut them out complete reduce them as much as possible. I read somewhere animals protein especially can bring sexual urges.
Also if want to fap take a cold shower rinse for at least 60 seconds (do not use hot water you can the beginning though) it always help me if I have the urge.
Also if want to fap take a cold shower rinse for at least 60 seconds (do not use hot water you can the beginning though) it always help me if I have the urge.
Ufcrocks1969
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPD7D67l2ew
Some interesting facts I never knew.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPD7D67l2ew
Some interesting facts I never knew.
Thanks for the support guys, I'm currently trying to pass a drug test so I have been killing water and running a lot for the past two weeks. I agree, cardio helps a lot! I'm only on day 4 again but I feel like each night I go without is an accomplishment, time is just going really slow it seems like. I work out every couple of weeks however so I'm still eating as much protein as I can on a limited diet. In the past year of learning about being a don and improving myself I have never actually taken a day out to go 'sarging'. Recently I have been reading 'The Game' by Neil Strauss and it has motivated me to the point that I'm planning on going to the local outlet mall this week and trying to get some numbers. I naturally have pretty good confidence so I should have some plates in no time. Once again, thanks for the support.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
Worst advice everUfcrocks1969 said:
I last smoked weed 22 days ago, since that time I have been running like crazy and killing water. I feel like it's out of my system. To be honest I love weed but it was holding me back. However I plan on smoking like Willy Nelson when I eventually retire.
Just an update on if I am actually seeing any results or anything. Basically I'm horny as 4uck, I'm normally a confident person and recently it has been out the freaking roof. I attempted approaching a girl at work today that was visiting her grandparents but she said she was a senior in high school still and she wasn't very receptive.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.