Eternal_water
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genuine question
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
90 day no fap journal.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Fatal Jay
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It's your brain
if you start to have a porn addiction, your brain will not respond to whenever your around a real women, that's why a lot of guys penis won't get erect, because the amount of porn they watch.
See with porn you can switch to different types of porn under an hour, which is not like reality, your brain uses up a lot of endorphins when your watching all that porn, but your endorphins never flare when your with that one woman/one situation.
A lot of young and old guys have ed based upon porn addiction. Can it be undone, yes ed can be cured. But it comes with a price
you will have to go 3 to 5 months with no porn no fapping at all if you want your brain to return to normal. To be honest, you must rid yourself of porn forever.
It's your brain
if you start to have a porn addiction, your brain will not respond to whenever your around a real women, that's why a lot of guys penis won't get erect, because the amount of porn they watch.
See with porn you can switch to different types of porn under an hour, which is not like reality, your brain uses up a lot of endorphins when your watching all that porn, but your endorphins never flare when your with that one woman/one situation.
A lot of young and old guys have ed based upon porn addiction. Can it be undone, yes ed can be cured. But it comes with a price
you will have to go 3 to 5 months with no porn no fapping at all if you want your brain to return to normal. To be honest, you must rid yourself of porn forever.
It's probably a bad idea to call that "erectile dysfunction." (1) As they age, men have reduced response and require greater sensory stimulation. Every 20-something man becomes aware that he has far less arousal than he did in his mid-teens. (2) A man who masturbates is satisfying his sexual desire as if he had a woman, which makes him unenthusiastic / less energetic about courtship. Again, this is normal and well known.
The world is a series of simple truths. There's no reason to embellish them. Men court and mate with women because they are instinctively driven to do so. Masturbation is self-consolation for failure, little different from an infant sucking his thumb when he can't get the tit. Most men grow out of the need to self-console, or replace it healthily with coitus. So I just don't see the need to grasp at straws about how masturbation makes one go blind, or the like.
The world is a series of simple truths. There's no reason to embellish them. Men court and mate with women because they are instinctively driven to do so. Masturbation is self-consolation for failure, little different from an infant sucking his thumb when he can't get the tit. Most men grow out of the need to self-console, or replace it healthily with coitus. So I just don't see the need to grasp at straws about how masturbation makes one go blind, or the like.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SpazzAttackk
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I dont know about OP, but after a long day at work I usually feel like rubbing one out quicklyFatal Jay said:
I apologize eternal water, I thought that was an attempt at trolling I didn't bother clicking on the links. But no I plan on staying away from any type of stimulation other than a real female.
Down low it probably was poor manners, but I'm self interested and I thought he was trolling.
For me masturbation isn't even just admitting defeat that I can't get a girl its just a way to get off quickly (3-5 min.)
The main reason that I am doing this is because the last two girls I attempted to have sex with I couldn't get a good 100% boner, I could get stiff but not hard enough to really be effective. During this time I was probably spending 2-3 hours a week watching porn and I was watching several different kinds of porn. Then I began researching it and I'm pretty sure that porn was my problem. So no I'm not done masturbation for forever, but I am done with porn.
Down low it probably was poor manners, but I'm self interested and I thought he was trolling.
For me masturbation isn't even just admitting defeat that I can't get a girl its just a way to get off quickly (3-5 min.)
The main reason that I am doing this is because the last two girls I attempted to have sex with I couldn't get a good 100% boner, I could get stiff but not hard enough to really be effective. During this time I was probably spending 2-3 hours a week watching porn and I was watching several different kinds of porn. Then I began researching it and I'm pretty sure that porn was my problem. So no I'm not done masturbation for forever, but I am done with porn.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
JohnChops
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No fap + no plates = disaster lol. For me I was wound up tighter than a slinky. Hard cardio helps relieves any temptation if you get any. Interesting log man I'll be following.DJ Bax said:
Ufcrocks1969
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Cut all sources of protein, meats, nuts ( that includes soy sauce, spicy foods, garlic and onions. If you can't cut them out complete reduce them as much as possible. I read somewhere animals protein especially can bring sexual urges.
Also if want to fap take a cold shower rinse for at least 60 seconds (do not use hot water you can the beginning though) it always help me if I have the urge.
Also if want to fap take a cold shower rinse for at least 60 seconds (do not use hot water you can the beginning though) it always help me if I have the urge.
Ufcrocks1969
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPD7D67l2ew
Some interesting facts I never knew.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPD7D67l2ew
Some interesting facts I never knew.
Thanks for the support guys, I'm currently trying to pass a drug test so I have been killing water and running a lot for the past two weeks. I agree, cardio helps a lot! I'm only on day 4 again but I feel like each night I go without is an accomplishment, time is just going really slow it seems like. I work out every couple of weeks however so I'm still eating as much protein as I can on a limited diet. In the past year of learning about being a don and improving myself I have never actually taken a day out to go 'sarging'. Recently I have been reading 'The Game' by Neil Strauss and it has motivated me to the point that I'm planning on going to the local outlet mall this week and trying to get some numbers. I naturally have pretty good confidence so I should have some plates in no time. Once again, thanks for the support.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DanZy
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Worst advice everUfcrocks1969 said:
I last smoked weed 22 days ago, since that time I have been running like crazy and killing water. I feel like it's out of my system. To be honest I love weed but it was holding me back. However I plan on smoking like Willy Nelson when I eventually retire.
Just an update on if I am actually seeing any results or anything. Basically I'm horny as 4uck, I'm normally a confident person and recently it has been out the freaking roof. I attempted approaching a girl at work today that was visiting her grandparents but she said she was a senior in high school still and she wasn't very receptive.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.