90 day no fap journal.

[Eternal_water]

genuine question

 

[Down Low]

Nope not watching any of that kind of stuff. If your not here to help me accomplish my goal or to give me an update on your progress with no fap then get the hell out.

Very poor manners.

No, not at all

but porn mixed with fapping is.

Would you be kind enough to explain how my body can tell the difference between porn and looking at a naked girl, or between masturbation and coitus?

 

[Fatal Jay]

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It's your brain

if you start to have a porn addiction, your brain will not respond to whenever your around a real women, that's why a lot of guys penis won't get erect, because the amount of porn they watch.

See with porn you can switch to different types of porn under an hour, which is not like reality, your brain uses up a lot of endorphins when your watching all that porn, but your endorphins never flare when your with that one woman/one situation.

A lot of young and old guys have ed based upon porn addiction. Can it be undone, yes ed can be cured. But it comes with a price

you will have to go 3 to 5 months with no porn no fapping at all if you want your brain to return to normal. To be honest, you must rid yourself of porn forever.

 

[Down Low]

It's probably a bad idea to call that "erectile dysfunction." (1) As they age, men have reduced response and require greater sensory stimulation. Every 20-something man becomes aware that he has far less arousal than he did in his mid-teens. (2) A man who masturbates is satisfying his sexual desire as if he had a woman, which makes him unenthusiastic / less energetic about courtship. Again, this is normal and well known.

The world is a series of simple truths. There's no reason to embellish them. Men court and mate with women because they are instinctively driven to do so. Masturbation is self-consolation for failure, little different from an infant sucking his thumb when he can't get the tit. Most men grow out of the need to self-console, or replace it healthily with coitus. So I just don't see the need to grasp at straws about how masturbation makes one go blind, or the like.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Then keep doing it lol. Anyways im on Day 18 of no fap.

 

[SpazzAttackk]

Damn brah 8 days? You need to stay busy, you must don't work?

I dont know about OP, but after a long day at work I usually feel like rubbing one out quickly

 

[DJ Bax]

I apologize eternal water, I thought that was an attempt at trolling I didn't bother clicking on the links. But no I plan on staying away from any type of stimulation other than a real female.

Down low it probably was poor manners, but I'm self interested and I thought he was trolling.

For me masturbation isn't even just admitting defeat that I can't get a girl its just a way to get off quickly (3-5 min.)

The main reason that I am doing this is because the last two girls I attempted to have sex with I couldn't get a good 100% boner, I could get stiff but not hard enough to really be effective. During this time I was probably spending 2-3 hours a week watching porn and I was watching several different kinds of porn. Then I began researching it and I'm pretty sure that porn was my problem. So no I'm not done masturbation for forever, but I am done with porn.

 

[BMX]

I recently ended my run at 86 days on Saturday. Not very hard at all. It helps having brand new women blowing up my phone begging to see ME.

 

[DJ Bax]

That is part of the problem, I haven't had a plate in like 3 months lol.

 

[Fatal Jay]

I recently ended my run at 86 days on Saturday. Not very hard at all. It helps having brand new women blowing up my phone begging to see ME.

your run didn't end if you had sex, it only ended if you fapped or fapped while watching porn.

 

[JohnChops]

That is part of the problem, I haven't had a plate in like 3 months lol.

No fap + no plates = disaster lol. For me I was wound up tighter than a slinky. Hard cardio helps relieves any temptation if you get any. Interesting log man I'll be following.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Day 20, cardio helps a ton. Get those endorphins popping, instead of them poppin from porn.

 

[Ufcrocks1969]

Cut all sources of protein, meats, nuts ( that includes soy sauce, spicy foods, garlic and onions. If you can't cut them out complete reduce them as much as possible. I read somewhere animals protein especially can bring sexual urges.

Also if want to fap take a cold shower rinse for at least 60 seconds (do not use hot water you can the beginning though) it always help me if I have the urge.

 

[Ufcrocks1969]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPD7D67l2ew


Some interesting facts I never knew.

 

[DJ Bax]

Thanks for the support guys, I'm currently trying to pass a drug test so I have been killing water and running a lot for the past two weeks. I agree, cardio helps a lot! I'm only on day 4 again but I feel like each night I go without is an accomplishment, time is just going really slow it seems like. I work out every couple of weeks however so I'm still eating as much protein as I can on a limited diet. In the past year of learning about being a don and improving myself I have never actually taken a day out to go 'sarging'. Recently I have been reading 'The Game' by Neil Strauss and it has motivated me to the point that I'm planning on going to the local outlet mall this week and trying to get some numbers. I naturally have pretty good confidence so I should have some plates in no time. Once again, thanks for the support.

 

[DanZy]

Cut all sources of protein.

Worst advice ever

 

[DJ Bax]

Doing pretty good so far, don't really have the urge to fap to be honest.

 

[Down Low]

Pass drug test = go crazy on cranberry, grapefruit, pomegranite, antioxidants.

 

[DJ Bax]

I last smoked weed 22 days ago, since that time I have been running like crazy and killing water. I feel like it's out of my system. To be honest I love weed but it was holding me back. However I plan on smoking like Willy Nelson when I eventually retire.

 

[DJ Bax]

Just an update on if I am actually seeing any results or anything. Basically I'm horny as 4uck, I'm normally a confident person and recently it has been out the freaking roof. I attempted approaching a girl at work today that was visiting her grandparents but she said she was a senior in high school still and she wasn't very receptive.