There are all different kinds of journals on here but for me the one thing I can't seem to accomplish is no fap for 90 days. The longest I have been able to do was like 8 or 9 days but I'm tired of this **** I've decided I'm going to stop and I'm going to journal my progress here.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
90 day no fap journal.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
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sageproduct
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Hey man. Best of luck on no fapping. Anytime you feel like doing it, check out these articles - you'll NEVER want to fap again.
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Masturbation's estrogenic effects
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Fatal Jay
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no homo, but I will help you on your no fap journey, since I have return on the 90 no fap challenge myself.
I completed it a few months back of 90 days, and I felt like I should celebrate by watching porn, which I regrect because it made me feel bad afterwards, and I was right back where I started before I went on the journey.
So this time I'm going to go beyong 90 days, I'm going to go for eternity. The feeling of no watching porn or fapping...especially after the first month, is the best feeling in the world. Your body and mind changes. It's like you gain super powers, that's the best way I can explain.
Porn is made to destroy you mentally, physically and spiritually.
I completed it a few months back of 90 days, and I felt like I should celebrate by watching porn, which I regrect because it made me feel bad afterwards, and I was right back where I started before I went on the journey.
So this time I'm going to go beyong 90 days, I'm going to go for eternity. The feeling of no watching porn or fapping...especially after the first month, is the best feeling in the world. Your body and mind changes. It's like you gain super powers, that's the best way I can explain.
Porn is made to destroy you mentally, physically and spiritually.
Thanks man, good to know that it is possible you just have to take it one day at a time! The biggest thing that is changing so far is that I really want to get laid and I know not to **** where I eat by trying to pick up a girl at work so I'm going to have to expand my social circle. Pretty soon I'm going to have to start cold approaching lol.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lol I was on netflix lastnight and I jacked it... I'm going to go for a month this time. I still haven't watched porn in like 2 weeks, I think that is the number one thing that is harmful for our bodies. Im done watching porn for good.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
I reckon porn's the bigger problem than fapping, just ensure porn doesn't creep back into your life.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I haven't done porn mixed with fapping in probably 3 weeks, anyways. Tomorrow I'm planning on going out pretty early before work and looking for a new job/sarging. I've never done this before but I'm motivated from watching simple pickups videos, most of the girls are pretty receptive to really stupid openers.
Eternal_water
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What about hot scenes from films like these, as they aren't actually pornDanZy said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flIZrXdKQlQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJnXV7OZRJI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ki20Lrq1UcM
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.