There are all different kinds of journals on here but for me the one thing I can't seem to accomplish is no fap for 90 days. The longest I have been able to do was like 8 or 9 days but I'm tired of this **** I've decided I'm going to stop and I'm going to journal my progress here.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
90 day no fap journal.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SamTheHobit
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sageproduct
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Hey man. Best of luck on no fapping. Anytime you feel like doing it, check out these articles - you'll NEVER want to fap again.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fatal Jay
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no homo, but I will help you on your no fap journey, since I have return on the 90 no fap challenge myself.
I completed it a few months back of 90 days, and I felt like I should celebrate by watching porn, which I regrect because it made me feel bad afterwards, and I was right back where I started before I went on the journey.
So this time I'm going to go beyong 90 days, I'm going to go for eternity. The feeling of no watching porn or fapping...especially after the first month, is the best feeling in the world. Your body and mind changes. It's like you gain super powers, that's the best way I can explain.
Porn is made to destroy you mentally, physically and spiritually.
I completed it a few months back of 90 days, and I felt like I should celebrate by watching porn, which I regrect because it made me feel bad afterwards, and I was right back where I started before I went on the journey.
So this time I'm going to go beyong 90 days, I'm going to go for eternity. The feeling of no watching porn or fapping...especially after the first month, is the best feeling in the world. Your body and mind changes. It's like you gain super powers, that's the best way I can explain.
Porn is made to destroy you mentally, physically and spiritually.
Thanks man, good to know that it is possible you just have to take it one day at a time! The biggest thing that is changing so far is that I really want to get laid and I know not to **** where I eat by trying to pick up a girl at work so I'm going to have to expand my social circle. Pretty soon I'm going to have to start cold approaching lol.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lol I was on netflix lastnight and I jacked it... I'm going to go for a month this time. I still haven't watched porn in like 2 weeks, I think that is the number one thing that is harmful for our bodies. Im done watching porn for good.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
I reckon porn's the bigger problem than fapping, just ensure porn doesn't creep back into your life.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I haven't done porn mixed with fapping in probably 3 weeks, anyways. Tomorrow I'm planning on going out pretty early before work and looking for a new job/sarging. I've never done this before but I'm motivated from watching simple pickups videos, most of the girls are pretty receptive to really stupid openers.
Eternal_water
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What about hot scenes from films like these, as they aren't actually pornDanZy said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flIZrXdKQlQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJnXV7OZRJI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ki20Lrq1UcM
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.