There are all different kinds of journals on here but for me the one thing I can't seem to accomplish is no fap for 90 days. The longest I have been able to do was like 8 or 9 days but I'm tired of this **** I've decided I'm going to stop and I'm going to journal my progress here.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
90 day no fap journal.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
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sageproduct
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Hey man. Best of luck on no fapping. Anytime you feel like doing it, check out these articles - you'll NEVER want to fap again.
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Masturbation's estrogenic effects
Penis curvature and Masturbation's relationship
How to quit any habit using 3 simple steps
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fatal Jay
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no homo, but I will help you on your no fap journey, since I have return on the 90 no fap challenge myself.
I completed it a few months back of 90 days, and I felt like I should celebrate by watching porn, which I regrect because it made me feel bad afterwards, and I was right back where I started before I went on the journey.
So this time I'm going to go beyong 90 days, I'm going to go for eternity. The feeling of no watching porn or fapping...especially after the first month, is the best feeling in the world. Your body and mind changes. It's like you gain super powers, that's the best way I can explain.
Porn is made to destroy you mentally, physically and spiritually.
I completed it a few months back of 90 days, and I felt like I should celebrate by watching porn, which I regrect because it made me feel bad afterwards, and I was right back where I started before I went on the journey.
So this time I'm going to go beyong 90 days, I'm going to go for eternity. The feeling of no watching porn or fapping...especially after the first month, is the best feeling in the world. Your body and mind changes. It's like you gain super powers, that's the best way I can explain.
Porn is made to destroy you mentally, physically and spiritually.
Thanks man, good to know that it is possible you just have to take it one day at a time! The biggest thing that is changing so far is that I really want to get laid and I know not to **** where I eat by trying to pick up a girl at work so I'm going to have to expand my social circle. Pretty soon I'm going to have to start cold approaching lol.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Lol I was on netflix lastnight and I jacked it... I'm going to go for a month this time. I still haven't watched porn in like 2 weeks, I think that is the number one thing that is harmful for our bodies. Im done watching porn for good.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
I reckon porn's the bigger problem than fapping, just ensure porn doesn't creep back into your life.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I haven't done porn mixed with fapping in probably 3 weeks, anyways. Tomorrow I'm planning on going out pretty early before work and looking for a new job/sarging. I've never done this before but I'm motivated from watching simple pickups videos, most of the girls are pretty receptive to really stupid openers.
Eternal_water
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What about hot scenes from films like these, as they aren't actually pornDanZy said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flIZrXdKQlQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJnXV7OZRJI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ki20Lrq1UcM
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.