"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
8 MAJOR Green Flags in Guys
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Plinco
Master Don Juan
Strongly agree with 2 and 4
1, 3, 5, 6, and 8 is laziness/entitlement
7 is potentially putting her unnecessarily in control of you. If she wants to get to know you, let it take time.
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It's always the mans responsibility for how she acts/feels....that's the common theme here. Lol. No thanks
It's pointless to listen to this stuff. It's for women to digest, not men. Knowing these things won't improve your chances with women.
It's pointless to listen to this stuff. It's for women to digest, not men. Knowing these things won't improve your chances with women.
jhonny9546
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Very interesting. Which were your "before" then "after" behaviour and outcomes in the two different scenarios?
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I must be doing something right as I'm yet to meet a woman who didn't have her brain turned off most of the time
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
They forgot the one about listening to Joe Rogan. His pods w/Joey Diaz saved me from absolute boredom and clawing my eyes out during some night shifts, while simultaneously meeting wicket points 2, 3, and 4.
jhonny9546
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Hilarious and true at the same time!I must be doing something right as I'm yet to meet a woman who didn't have her brain turned off most of the time
By the way,I had this moment where I was staying with this women alone, doing some crap office work.
The first women told me "You made me relax".
The second women told me "My blood pressure is goind down". (I thought She was going crazy, So i took a chair for her).
Is this related to the "powering off" feature women have?